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Charrice

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joined on 12/23/06
last updated 03/29/08
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My thoughts for the day

I believe we must all look within ourselves for validation and happiness. In my experiences I have encountered some who seem to think that finding bliss and fulfillment is achieved by finding a specific person to love. I’ve also known people who seem to need validation from others which I believe is the very reason that they are unfulfilled and unhappy.

If we seek others to validate us then our happiness lies in the hands of those we seek validation from. This is not only unrealistic but c... read more
Sun, January 27, 2008 - 2:46 PM permalink - 1 comment
 
I am a firm believer in the philosophy that what goes around comes around in this lifetime. Karmic balance is achieved whether you are a loving, thoughtful person who lives by the golden rule or a negative insecure person riddled with loneliness, bad luck, drama and sadness.

What we put out in this world is always returned to us. We are given the gift of reflection through our relationships. Reflections of self through the actions of those we keep close can teach us things about ourselves... read more
Sat, January 19, 2008 - 10:23 AM permalink - 2 comments
 
I ran across some of my old dark/erotic poetry and thought it was worth sharing....

My precious one

Beautiful devoted slave, she is my ravishing creature
drawing out her darkest fantasies and learning
her deepest secrets brings me tremendous pleasure
her reverence illuminates my dominance
her illusive sexual energy is conducive to my deviant nature
the trust she places in me as I push her to the edge of her fears
proves to me that my precious one gives herself willfully
I kn... read more
Sat, January 12, 2008 - 10:09 AM permalink - 1 comment
 
My theory (perhaps others share my perspective) is that our soul mate, divine counterpart or life partner is a merely a reflection of self. One must develop a healthy relationship with themselves in order to find our soul mate or one true love. When we have devoted the time and energy to a healthy relationship with ourselves; when we dig deep and truly get to know and love who we are inside and out; when we accept our own past and embrace who we are, who we have been and who we shall be, we a... read more
Wed, January 9, 2008 - 9:02 PM permalink - 4 comments
 
There are as many styles of relationships, as there are names for them. My personal belief is that two people in love can create their own unique relationship that is not necessarily modeled after anything else. Those two lovers take aspects of various types of relationships and incorporate them into their uniquely loving, intimate relationship. I have always been in control of my own sexual sovereignty. I find myself attracted to others who live similarly and make no apologies for it.

I’... read more
Wed, January 2, 2008 - 11:24 AM permalink - 2 comments
 
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Gender
Female
Age
40
Location
about me
Single, fun loving Lesbian in the South Bay looking to connect with other brilliant minds. I have a flair for writing erotica, & poetry. I enjoy sharing my perspectives. Intellectual banter is my kind of fun as long as both parties respect one another's perspective and can remain non judgemental. I welcome opposing ideas and perspectives or clicking with those who share my views. I appreciate other writers with a passion for life who are a bit deviant/kinky. I adore musicians and artisits who are wonderfully creative. I'm filled with passion and sensuality, love and light but I also have a dark side that I embrace. I'm in touch with my feminine and masculine energy and am quite comfortable in my own skin. I stay fit physically, mentally and spiritually by doing the work required which is a lifelong process. I consider myself to be a very sensually creative woman and compassionate friend. I enjoy the kinkier things and challenging myself , my lovers, friends and colleagues. I am on a continual path of self awareness, spiritualty and personal growth. I'm a smart ass but am also senstive, loving and very caring. I have my shit together and don't play games (unless it's in the bedroom) l thoroughly enjoy deep thought provoking conversations. I'm a free thinking woman with a strong sense of self, grounded and centered. I'm here to make some friends, especially locals I can actually meet real time to cultivate our connections with in the flesh. I play soccer, softball, football and any sport that I can, although I'm not a very good skater I enjoy just about anything athletic. I have a very positive perspective and take responsibility for my own actions and consequences of those actions. I adore children and would love to have my own when I find my soulmate. I live Authentically, passionately, ethically and in the moment because it's all we have for certain.I take an extremely direct approach to my relationships and am honest to a fault, especialy with myself. I take nothing for granted in this fleeting moment we call life on earth.
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