So we see the news reports about Lil Carle that went missing and the finding of what might be her remains. I watched a woman read a letter to the missing girl about how she will miss her pretty smile and lovely spirt. Umm she had never meet the girl before. She had said that she couldn't bear children and would have loved her....

OK my beef.... where are all the stories about African American children that are missing , found dead or beaten. You don't hear those. only the ones about cute... read more

It always happens this way. I'm not even shocked anymore. Everytime we are right on the verge of being able to save money something happens that pretty much puts us in the dumper. And I mean everytime. We have the spread sheet and start looking at buying a house and then Wham! the rug is snatched out from under us. When I told david that I had gotten laid off he was like "well no suprise there." Why does this keep happing to us. Does the lady want us to suffer on purpose. Not to get big heads... read more

I got laid off last friday. GOD! I feel stupid. I started to feel safe working at a private club. And then Whammmmm kicked out of the playpen!