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Blair

joined on 09/14/06
last updated 05/16/08
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Gender
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Age
46
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about me
I'm a guy that doesn't get the "guy" things in life.
hockey, baseball, WWF, and shoot-em-ups don't thrill.
I'd rather sit on the couch with a loved one curled around me
And sip at tea and share a book that helps our minds be free.

I have friends who like to talk about bigger things
And often wonder how to make the world a better place
As we drink some good dark ale out by the fire
while the stars roll by in the mid-summer sky.

You might find me up on stage with my very good friends
Ever since I was young, I loved the Irish songs
And I'm so very, very lucky to have this dreamy thing
Of playing music that makes people cry and laugh and sing.

Spiritualty is important to me but I won't be nailed down.
Raised a Christian but not particularly strict.
I believe in growth and dignity and grace
But I'm not about keeping people in their place.

I like to think I perch upon a fence
because I can see many sides of any story
And sometimes that makes me stuck and grumbling
But when I get knocked off I hit the ground running.

And that brings me to where I am today.
Some big changes in the last year with two beautiful girls.
And a wonderful yummy partner who hangs out around here.
And she even helps carry all the music gear.

That last line was a little lame so I'll stop rhyming now
If you want to know more follow me around.
Send a PM and I'll write you back.
um.... fol la da diddly diddly whack. ;-)
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Re: how much time is too much? (in Polyamory)
I second what Dan and Diva have said too. Setting up a date night is a good thing -- making a commitment to deal with your relationship with intent.

I have a suggestion that might help you frame your approach to this:

You may want to try ... read more
discussion post on Wed, May 14, 2008 - 7:07 PM
Re: Blair (in Ask a Sexy Woman Anything) Hi Myriad,

I think that's roughly what I was trying to say but I find my tongue gets tied up with my fingers :-) Expressing opinions is a good thing, attacking others while doing so isn't. If people feel safe expressing their beliefs, however e... read more
discussion post on Thu, April 17, 2008 - 7:59 AM
Re: *the universe hiccuped* (in Ask a Sexy Woman Anything) I realized just the other day that I used to think to myself, on a very regular basis, "I can hardly wait until....".

I was only vaguely aware that wishing for life to hurry up and be over with wasn't really a good thing. And I suppose what hap... read more
discussion post on Wed, April 16, 2008 - 9:52 AM
Re: Punctuation Wars: The Comic Book (in Ask a Sexy Woman Anything) The Cedillan villain OctoThorpe crushes the hopelessly aigu Ampersand.

Hmmm. Okay, they're not punctuation exactly, but I always wanted to use octothorpe in a sentence.
discussion post on Tue, April 15, 2008 - 12:58 PM
Re: Speaking Up for Once (in Ask a Sexy Woman Anything) That's okay, I'll defend your right to disagree with me. Maybe even a lot ;-);-);-)

"The pen is mightier than the sword". Edward Bulwer-Lytton (Yup, I had to go look that up...)

Hurtful words can do just as much damage as action because the... read more
discussion post on Tue, April 15, 2008 - 10:24 AM
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