Female

"I can't understand why people are frightened of new ideas. I'm frightened of the old ones." -- John Cage :)

The worst times in my life have been when I've allowed other people to define me!!!!!!!

everyone I know is a reflection of some part of me!
ItAlIaN/lAtInA....shy extrovert, i don't prejudge,(i do follow my good old gut feeln'.....if it looks like and smells like s**t, it usually is!) still not sure what i want to be when i grow up ...... I might make you laugh, but no promises. the more friends the merrier. so often i lose my grace in the presence of a beautiful boi or grrl....random interuptions always apply. a life of loving that has not been limited by gender(I feel that I can love someone for who they are as a person rather than what gender, color, social rank, or any other "label" they may have "stuck" to them)....i'll usually always cut to the chase!

I have found in my own life, that I tend to attract many non-traditional friendships, with really very diverse people,
diverse ethnicities, backgrounds and ages......
button-holeing is the cruelist fate for an Aries! i crave new energy, expression, experiences, HONESTY and communication. always transitioning, morphing and evolving, i am a trailblazer and appreciate all that life hands me. my ideology of love and relationships is a little unconventional, thus i surround myself with open, honest, creative thinkers. quite the social butterfly, im known for fluttering around many different social events, circles and scenes. i find pleasure in learning from every encounter, loving without expectation, challenging typical boundaries. i often burn my candle at both ends, though couldnt imagine being any other way?

"after awhile you learn the subtle difference between holding a hand and chaining a soul, and you learn that love doesn't mean security, and you begin to learn that kisses aren't contracts and presents aren't promises, and you begin to accept your defeats with your head up and your eyes open, with the grace of an adult, not the grief of a child, and you learn to build all your roads on today because tomorrow's ground is too uncertain for plans....
and you learn and you learn... with every goodbye you learn. " Pain is the touchstone of spiritual growth. Misery, however, is totally optional.