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|Being a "bottom" means you must have a strong solid built quality foundation in order to hold and support that "top".....|
|Somewhere in the mix it sometimes means dealing with the Top(s) chiding and feminizing of the bottom or related slurs and insults. Sometimes being dehumanized helps the top achieve a power orgasm, sometimes the bottom climaxes if allowed to. Like it best when the two do sex efforts to climax mutually, their cream ejaculations.|
|dirk was correct in his observations. Many people in our world think that, if you're a submissive or a slave, you have to be weak when, curiously, the exact OPPOSITE is closer to the truth. We're submissives and slaves not because someone has forced us. We're submissives and slaves because we CHOOSE to be!!!!|
So Few UnderstandSo few who are even aware of the Master-Slave world understand this elemental truth -- even many masters don't really grasp it, or perhaps do not want to try. I have conversed with a number of full-time slaveboys, some of them acting as no-limits slaves, or as toilet slaves, and without exception, I am deeply moved by their courage and inner strength. Without exception, they know why they love this lifestyle and they are intensely proud of their abilities -- abilities which very few of us can duplicate. The hallmark of their existence is service -- service to another human who agrees to become their master in all things. Anyone who thinks this is easy simply does not understand the Master-Slave world, nor the depth of wisdom and maturity of a genuine slave. And if you think these are boys who fall into this life through ignorance, stupidity or lack of education -- think again. They have more inner knowledge and self-awareness than almost any educated, 'self-made' man could hope to enjoy.
|dirk, thanks for posting. its been my experience when i turn over all control that i am never more alive ... more empowered ... more in touch with who i truly am. my masculinity is recharged and affirmed in the freedom of offering up of myself in true service and worship of a dominant.|