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Domestic Violence

   Wed, March 5, 2008 - 10:07 PM
I hate domestic violence, and I wont put up with it. I wont have anyone on my friend list who is an abuser. Its true what they say it wont happen to you and it does. I am not the one being abused but it affects me and it sucks. This person I am close to is really important to me. One thing he is safe, and living far away from his abuser. This person got him arrested, and he is put away for now, and this asshole might be release tomorrow. If any of you who read this ever been or are being abused please get out NOW. Dont wait til they start hitting you or again, or worse. I cant say who this person is who was abused until they say its okay. Even you arent being abused and you know someone who is, it effects you so very much. The last email I got from the victim, they told me that the SOB was going to buy a gun from a pawn shop and kill their victim. After reading that I had a meltdown last night, during my square dance class. Where you are supposed to have fun, but I was thinking about my friend going to be shot and killed.I was lucky that a friend of mine wanted to talk to me and I told him what was going on. Its better to talk to someone, and you will start feeling better, but the memory of the abuse wont go away until the person doing the abusing is in prison or dead. Please stop this vicious cycle, and get some help and report the abuse. THANK YOU.



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Mon, June 2, 2008 - 4:21 PM
That sure was a ROUGH time for Me little Br'o!
Especially the GUN Part,and my Ex was drugged up enought to DO IT too!
So through his Junkie Actions we lost that crappy little rental house in Tacoma...but the END Result was..I am still here to talk about this incident.
You see? Being a 60 year old Drug Abuser acomplishes NOTHING in Life! It got my Ex Partner arrested,he spent three miserable nights in Tacoma City Jail and then four more in a Psychiatric Ward and then he got thrown out onto the street without a place to live.
While the danger to me my little brother speaks of in this Blog was VERY REAL,what did my drugged-up Junkie Ex partner "Really Accomplish"?
It made me move 885 miles away on (3/31/08) to Sunny Southeastern Idaho with my then NEW Partner where we lived in a rental house until last week(5/26/08) when my new Man and I bought a NEW HOUSE...Together!
Is doing Drugs COOL? FUCK NO! do they help enrich your Life? FUCK NO! in fact,being a Junkie only makes you a Threat to those you supposedly "Love" and make your life a spiraling downward slide and continued use of your Fun Drugs will leave you HOMELESS just as it has for my Ex.
Did this incident "affect" my relationship with my Little Brother? YES...it only brought he and I even CLOSER!
Today as he stated..I am Safe from my Abusive Ex and now setting up with my new Man here in Pocatello Idaho in our brand new House!
Some of Us don't use the intelligence we are born with(like my Ex) and some,like myself,MOVE beyond such an incident and better the life we have.
Thanks Michael..for all your support when I needed you most!
Your Older Brother
Wolf
Mon, June 2, 2008 - 10:34 PM
You're welcome Jake
Jake my big brother, I love you so much, and it broke my heart to hear that the man who said he loved you with all his heart, wanted to kill you with a gun. Then instead dragged you with his truck, by grabbing your arm, and then letting you go. Lucky for you, that there wasnt any cars on the road that day, or just a worse, that you slipped under Ron's truck and he runs you over, or that he stopped the truck and put it in reverse. I am so glad that SOB is out of our lives and we are closer than ever. I have a new brother name Don and I love him for saving Jakes life and coming into mine. Love you bro and Don. HUGS GRIZZLEY