My pet peeves - Fat bulges Tummy rolls and Bra bulges

There is nothing worse than seeing someone with those low rise hip hugger jeans and a roll (or two) of tummy fat hanging and bulging over the top - do you girls have “any” friends that would tell you how ridiculous that looks!)

If your bra strap adds a fat roll along your back - just choose a looser shirt - or “layer”!
Wear a cami top underneath you blouse to help smooth out that fat bulge. Remember when you were little and you wore “undershirts”? Mom was not so dumb, the undershirt hides what your blouse or top can not!

So either buy bigger size clothes, get new friends who will not lie to you or buy a new mirror!

can I be sexy and dress sexy at 50?

I need help. I am turning 50 (gulp) this year and even though I am still somewhat slender (only a small tummy fat bulge), I still want to dress sexy, but I don't want to be laghed at as the old lady trying to look like a young chick.

I found this really sexy dress at : <a href="store.fastcommerce.com/prod_T...b5.html ">store.fastcommerce.com/prod_T...b5.html </a>

The problem is, that is a really "slinky" knit, and I do have that slight tummy bulge, and with the open back (I have to wear a bra), and even though I am not built on top like the model in the picture (I'm a 34-C), I think I could pull it off, i'm not too saggy - yet.

I tried those stick on bras - they don't work.
Am I too old to dress like this or should I just wear it at home behind closed doors?

Help!