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bethie bee

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joined on 02/05/08
last updated 05/08/08
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be the bee

Age
31
about me
A Performance At Hog Theater
by Russell Edson

There was once a hog theater where hogs performed
as men, had men been hogs.

One hog said, I will be a hog in a field which has
found a mouse which is being eaten by the same hog
which is in the field and which has found the mouse,
which I am performing as my contribution to the
performer's art.

Oh let's just be hogs, cried an old hog.

And so the hogs streamed out of the theater crying,
only hogs, only hogs...
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words to live up to

April 23, 2008
Miss Bee...how do I love thee? let me count the ways...you always have something insightful to say when I need advise. You have magics in seeing things from different angles. You are Brave, beautiful, silly, fun and SMART.
you inspire me to be a better person, and I'm honored that you are my friend
April 15, 2008
A year ago this weekend (I think) I started a lifetime long friendship. She started out by giving me one of the best presents someone has given me, a chance to travel a distance to say goodbye to a mutual friend. Bethie and I had been in the same place so many times, but had never had the chance to begin the long friendship I see ahead.

Bethie,
I look forward to growing old with you. I’m sure there will be many more adventures and laughs to come, and I can’t hardly wait!!! Thank you for the past year!!!
March 25, 2008
Bethie is a fantastic animal communicator.

I have a diabetic cat that needs special care and was not very happy with the situation he was in. Bethie was able to not only identify the unhappiness, but she suggested options as well as ways to improve his care. She was not only eerily accurate, she did it over the phone. From 500 miles away. She provided useful, accurate, thoughtful and appropraite suggestions not only from her abilities to communicate with my cat, but also from her own volunteer and professional experiences working with animals.

I am not one who trusts the care of my cat to just anyone. I demand the best, and I won't settle for just somebody, especially with my cat, who is my closest connection.

5 stars.
February 6, 2008
Beth, is, first and foremost, a Warrior who personifies the fealty and service of Samurai. She learns at a fantastic rate, overcomes fears and processes them even faster, and maintains an empathy for others, who wounded, wound her. She serves with the core of her being.

She's a beautiful little girl, a caring, nurturing woman, and a mentor and teacher who will, no doubt, save the world. I would, and have, gone halfway around the country for her. She's my Seester. I love and care about her deeply.
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~Welcome friends~

From me to you, Pinky Sue! May your day be brightened as you have brightened mine!
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my friend policy

I don’t have a separate friend policy for tribe, but I do have a friend policy for life in general and here it is.

I don’t generally think of people as strangers, I think of them as friends I have not met yet. I’m fairly open and trusting until someone gives me reason not be, and then I tend to shut them out of my life completely. Above all else, I value honesty, most especially the ability to be honest with one’s self. I’m the kind of person that needs and appreciates the two by four approach, no mincing of words - just give it to me straight. You can be sure that I will do the same for you. I think that this is vital for the success of any relationship because you cannot trust someone who always says yes to you, if you know that they are not capable of saying no. To me, being friends means getting to know someone inside and out. Warts and all! Everyone has flaws and it’s my belief that our flaws are what make us special and beautiful. Our humanity is what makes people interesting and worthwhile. Conflict does not bother me, we don’t have to agree all the time to be friends. I do expect my friends to own their part in conflict because that is the standard I hold myself to as well. I won’t judge you and I expect you not to judge me. I will stand by you and support you to the best of my ability, I’ll help you where and when I can and as much and probably more than I am capable of. I’ll love you for who you are even if you can’t return the favor. When you hurt, you can believe that I am hurting too. When you are happy, I will be happy for you. And you can believe that with me, what you see is what you get. I make no attempt to hide what or who I am. I don’t hold back on what I have to offer and I make no attempt to disguise my flaws. I don’t try to be anything I’m not. And in case you had not figured it out by now, I expect my friends to be the same way, to be who they are, just who they are.

So what I’m saying is that I don’t do this friend thing like most people. I’m not about hanging out, clubbing or doing whatever it is the young kids are doing these days, and then saying “look at all my friends”. I enjoy the people I spend time with and I hope they will enjoy the time they spend with me but in my opinion to be a friend, a real and true friend, that is something much more to me. That is a connection of souls that can’t be found in a bar, in a club, in a dungeon, or even here on tribe. Being friends with me involves being brave enough to risk being seen, and truly seeing me. I can make you this promise; I’ll never give up on you and I’ll stick with you as far as you are willing to go, as long as you are willing to stick with me.

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everything i have and i am is for him

my Daddy, my Owner, my Soul Mate. Thank you for letting me be your little girl
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My Mitote

Hello everyone! For this month, I'd like to discuss a topic that has been on my mind quite a bit lately. What does it take to maintain the headspace of a submissive, slave etc.? How much of the responsibility lies on the submissive to maintain that haedspace and how much of it is the Dominant's responsibility? What tips can we share with each other for staying in the headspace during the challenging times when our Dominants are not present, when we are tired or cranky, when we have to move su... read more
Mon, May 12, 2008 - 5:55 PM permalink - 1 comment
 
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