Hello everyone! For this month, I'd like to discuss a topic that has been on my mind quite a bit lately. What does it take to maintain the headspace of a submissive, slave etc.? How much of the responsibility lies on the submissive to maintain that haedspace and how much of it is the Dominant's responsibility? What tips can we share with each other for staying in the headspace during the challenging times when our Dominants are not present, when we are tired or cranky, when we have to move suddenly between being in charge in our daily lives and being in service? What can your Dominant do to help you get into and stay in the submissive headspace and what tends to throw you out?

I hope to see you all there this month! We still have some spaces left, but don't forget to RSVP to phoenixkali AT gmail DOT com.

For those of you who have never been to SSS and might be interested, please visit my listing on the Janus Community events calendar at www.soj.org Thanks!