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A lot of people worry about categories in the lifestyle: “What’s really dominant or submissive and what’s fake? I get asked that often. “Is cross-dressing part of BDSM or a fetish?”
Sun, February 3, 2008 - 2:15 PM
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Why is Rudi Giuliani in drag an example of cross-dressing, but not Hilary Clinton in her designer pants suits? And just what about gender-bending and cross-dressing? Are they part of power exchange play, or are they forms of kink all their own? They aren’t even strictly gay or heterosexual, so…? Some peop... read more 
Take a look at my last video on youTube:
Mon, December 17, 2007 - 4:09 PM
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youtube.com/watch If you do a YouTube.com search for "erotic powerplay," all my videos pop up (15 to date). Or, go to my web site www.lifestyleeducation.net/video.html where the videos are linked at. I find it so sad how powerplay among loving people is so very misunderstood. The prejudice is rampant. More so in the US than in Germany and northern Europe in general, where the attitude towards sexuality is more rela... read more 
In my previous blog, I pointed out how the roles we tend to enjoy in sexual fantasies and erotic power play don’t correlate necessarily with personality types, style or roles in everyday life. Neither do they appear to be compensations. The busy, high pressure professional, doesn’t necessarily yearn to submit to a dominant sexual partner. Not all comedians want to play Hamlet, either.
Tue, December 11, 2007 - 6:55 PM
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With erotic power exchange and role-playing, however, we do get to release powerful feelings, and fly to... read more 
People who have little or no experience with erotic power exchange often ask me if people like to play the same roles in bed as they do in life.
Fri, November 30, 2007 - 5:24 PM
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They believe that dominants – whether male or female – must have aggressive personalities and that those who like play submissive roles must incline to be meek, even wimpy, in everyday life. They also believe that a person is either a “master” or a “slave” and never the twain shall met Of course I have to tell them, gently, that nothing could... read more 
I was working on redesigning my website, working on the "archetype" page www.lifestyleeducation.net/arch....html
Thu, May 31, 2007 - 10:57 AM
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A very good friend who is pretty new to powerplay called me. We discussed archetypes. I think that when people consciously play with power, archetypes surface, and that this is very powerful, larger than life. We may feel this surge of energy flowing through us. "Wow! What's going on?!?" It may be connecting with archetypal energy. One needs to treat this energy with gre... read more
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