So on and so forth...
Be happy that you can decide to be happy...
Mon, July 18, 2005 - 4:05 PMToday it seems our lives predispose us to absorb negative feelings and it is easy to forget the times of bliss. We try so hard to find solid connections, to find empathy, and understanding. If we lose one, the world seems to lose its meaning. It is good to remember that life is hard and wonderful, and maybe there is no meaning beyond the tip of your tongue.
So if you please, be happy that you can decide to be happy...
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Tue, July 19, 2005 - 7:45 AM
Choices
It all boils down to choices doesn't it? You can decide what attitude to take towards a situation, you can go in a positive or negative direction.
Unfortunately, I think many people often go the negative route as a knee-jerk reaction (which can be difficult to un-learn). "A girl broke up with me, it's the worst thing that's ever happened." Maybe it should be more like: "A girl broke up with me that probably wasn't the best fit for me and now I've learned from the experience and can develop a better relationship with someone else". If you think that everything sucks all the time, it probably does, but that's influenced by your attitude. I'm not saying to delude yourself but I'd rather try to look at the bright side or find what the lesson is in the experience rather than just focus on how much something sucks. |
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Thu, September 8, 2005 - 6:24 PM
I'm
I'm really enjoying your writing and attitudes.... xox
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