Meryl
discussion post on Fri, August 8, 2008 - 7:34 AM
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"For us there is pain in joy and joy in pain...." Lame Deer (from _Lame Deer: Seeker of Visions_, p. 190). 
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Mid-40s queer leatherwoman in the SF North Bay Area. In service to Domina (aka Domina Lilith or Domina Lilith Corwyn) of SF Bay Area. Formerly collared to Ms Megan Silver of Denver, Colorado. Current member of the Exiles (SF). Former member (mid-1980s) of the SF Outcasts (which preceded the Exiles). Former member of COLLAR (Colorado Leather Lesbian/Ladies Alternative Resource) and Denver WICK'D (Women in Control of Kink and Domination). Current member of the SF Citadel. Former member of Denver Sanctuary. I have identified as a lesbian for many years, having come out 25+years ago and been involved primarily with women, but I also like sweet men who do not suffer from ETS (excess testosterone syndrome), and I like hot, gay leathermen. I'm coming more to identify as "queer," which allows, in my opinion, for more nuanced understandings of identity, sexuality, and matters of the heart.
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Re: Mass transit fantasies
(in SF The Citadel)
Infrastructure fetish. That's too much! LOL
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Re: What do you suggest in SF
(in Queer's over 40)
No doubt Terry has long since made his trip, but just in case someone happens upon this thread, I love to ride the cable cars. Admittedly, the ride is tame, but it's fun to hop on the front of either side of the car and hang on with with the hand...
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discussion post on Mon, August 4, 2008 - 6:54 AM
Re: Master Erick is Iron Dom 2008
(in SF The Citadel)
Here's the song list, folks, just in case you want to know how excruciating it was to wash ashore on the Isle of Iron Dom . . .
Iron Dom 2008: The Music Knock Three Times—Tony Orlando & Dawn I'll Never Fall in Love Again--Dionne Warwick ... read more discussion post on Sun, August 3, 2008 - 1:01 PM
Leather Archives & Museum
(in Leather History)
I will be going to Chicago in October and am leaving home a day early in order to visit the Leather Archives & Museum. Has anyone viewed their exhibit or used the archive? What did you think? Do you have any general suggestions about visiting L...
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discussion post on Fri, August 1, 2008 - 5:49 PM
Re: Novice Question: colors
(in Leather History)
TN wrote: "My understanding was that flagging was common only briefly. Since then, it's been considered a form of retro camp. People do it on occasion more to be cute than as a serious flag, which is part of the reason for the explosion of increa...
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discussion post on Sat, July 26, 2008 - 1:06 AM
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*queer poly*,
Bay Area BDSM Polyamory,
Bay Area Femdommes and Friends,
Bay Area Leather Pagans,
BDSM,
BDSM and People Of all Colors,
BDSM and Polyamory,
BDSM and Spirituality,
BDSM and Tantra,
BDSM and the Arts,
BDSM Medical Play,
BDSM Newbies,
BDSM Stories,
BDSM Tips & Techniques,
BDSM Tribe Pointers,
BDSM Women Only,
BDSM_Conflict_Resolution,
Becoming a slave,
Caning,
D/s,
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