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Why elusive? Apart from the desire to differentiate myself from the other Graces on Tribe, I like word play. I don't fit into a well defined box. I'm often random. I'm difficult to pin down. (Unless, you know...I'm actually pinned down. Or tied up.) I'm also tricksy, which is a dangerous thing to combine with an overactive imagination like mine. And, yes, I'm a bit clumsy...meaning that while I may be elusive to others, the virtue of being graceful is on occasion elusive to me.

I'm a pagan finding my own way in a world of organized religions that just don't fit me. I'm a goddess in the garden and a witch in the kitchen. I'm an earth mother to any creature, great or small, that needs to feel safe and loved. I'm a sensual being looking to explore the darker, more taboo places in my psyche. I'm a timid, bisexual slut getting in touch with my submissive side, flirting with dominant roles, and finding out more about myself in the process. I'm always growing, always learning, gradually changing, in my journey of self-discovery.

I am married to a wonderful man who makes me laugh. I'm new to the scene, and I'm looking to chat with people about their experiences in BDSM, at The Citadel and Power Exchange, and at other local venues. I'm also into erotic writing, and I'd love to share stories, or even write specific stories on request for my friends. I am looking for friendships and flirtation. I'm friendly, if you want to chat, though I may not add you as a friend until after I get to know you a little. I am open to persuasion. And flattery :-)

I don't know yet what flavors of play I enjoy most, since I'm exploring areas that are new to me. In my imagination, everything is delicious, but in real life...almost everything is a new experience. I've been vanilla for a long time, except in my fantasies, and I finally have partners willing to explore the less conventional desires I've kept suppressed for so long. I'm starting to get out more, and I love volunteering, so I may be found at local events by those that want to meet me in person.

I have a livejournal of my amateur erotica available. There are only a few stories at the moment, but I'm adding more every week. I also have a link to my slave journal in my blog, and photos of me, both for friends only.