Ray and I have shared some of the most meaningful times in our lives together. Although we have both moved on to other paths, we will always share that special connection to our past. Our experiences together taught us both valuable things that I will always be grateful for. No one else can call me "Schätzchen" the way he did. Much love to the kobold!

i have never known a man so beautiful. i never want to share a love so pure with anyone. he has inspired me and will continue to do so for the rest of my life. i love you!

Where does one start? The first encounter, full of 80 ounces of St. Ides and stumbling in circles? The fact that I still have his favorite pillow and drool on it nightly? That we have shared strange parasites, beds, and intoxicants, among other unmentionables (though not all on the same night)? Terrified, acid-fueled hikes through Monterey? It is impossible to choose, as the last 14 years have provided too many fond memories to pick from... Suffice it to say, I regret wholeheartedly that our lives have kept us mostly apart these past few years...

this wonderful man i have known for some time...we have shared great talk and we have shared great wine...he makes it all okay when the blues start to fuse and he tickles me pink when the green has amused...he has held me through some intensive recovery...while opening up to some new found discovery...i can't shake this man nor is it my desire...he has made my life grand and has taken me quite higher...he is the brother i begged my mother for as a child or perhaps we have been kin, lovers, mother daughter in some past life....i know this man loves me and i treasure this with all my heart...many smooches to you my fascist kin

Damn! With testimonials like this I really wish I knew Ray personally!

That's it. I'm moving to Canada.