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Zel

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joined on 07/12/04
last updated 02/06/08
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My Testimonials

September 19, 2007
Zel---having had the pleasure of meeting you and watching you dance was a hoot! You are so sweet and I hope to watch you all again soon.
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My Profile

Gender
Female
Age
40
Location
about me
I am director of Raks Benazir, a tribal fusion dance troupe based in Denver, Colorado
www.raksbenazir.com
We have many performances under our hip belts at events such as The Colorado Dark Arts Festival, Opus Fantasy Arts Festival,
The Tribal Soiree, etc.

I have been obsessed with belly dance since 1992 and have been performing since about 1996. My dance background is in Egyptian cabaret style, but I went "tribal" in 2001 when RaksBenazir was born. We recently produced our own show, Beyond the Veil, with Kara Nomadica, Serpent Moon and Tribe Ama'la and it was a great success! Our next event will be a belly dance track in tandem with the Colorado Dark Arts Festival!

I also create electronic music with middle eastern and indian elements and recently released my first cd, called Eka (which is a Sanskrit word meaning "one."
You can hear a sample of that here: www.zelhayal.com or at www.myspace.com/zelhayal.
mp3 downloads are available there, and on emusic and iTunes!
The cd is also available through me directly--just e mail me for further info. It's also availalbe at my Etsy Store: www.ZelH.etsy.com, on CDBABY: cdbaby.com/cd/zelhayal and in Colorado, it's at Marrakech & Paprika

I make and sell tribal style costuming, hair falls, leather tribal belts, cowrie falls and medallions and art dolls.
Please check out my shop at: www.ZelH.etsy.com

I'm an insurance Underwriter by day and have been so for 17 years now, so I'm working on getting out & I am pursuing my dream, one step at a time, of owning my own business. Currently that consists of selling stuff online & making music. But it's going to grow....Soon!
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Recent Adventures

He got all of it this morning, so it's done and over. I truly feel like a huge (as in Dan-sized) weight has been lifted!!!!!!!!!!
Sun, July 20, 2008 - 4:16 PM permalink - 3 comments
 
So tired of having this be the most present thing in my mind....I truly can't wait to just move on.
Finally....he comes to get the rest of his belongings tomorrow morning.
Everything is in the garage...he got so abusive & tried to intimidate me and blame me for everything that went wrong.
The police will be here for what they call a civil standby. I will have some protective male friends here as well.
Pretty unbelievable that it came to this. He is not to enter the house and I will ... read more
Sat, July 19, 2008 - 9:48 AM permalink - 4 comments
 
We had "the conversation" this morning.

I said, "I want you to move out."

He said, "I want to, too."

And that, more or less, is how it went, other than his asking if he could stay until the end of July. I said that's fine, but not rent free...I can't afford that any more.

So, we'll see how that goes. I am kid-free for 3 weeks, so I can pretty much come & go...avoid the scene if I need to.

I'm relieved. I've been needing to have this conversation with him for weeks now. Oth... read more
Sun, June 29, 2008 - 3:49 PM permalink - 4 comments
 
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