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What's up with people?!?
Wed, July 11, 2007 - 4:51 PMI am not always a public person! I don't tell everyone every thing that goes on in my life... that's why they call it a "PERSONAL LIFE". I'm an up person and tend to only talk about up things in my life EVEN TO MY CLOSEST FRIENDS!
So why is it if I step away from my computer for a few days to take care of "personal business" people think that I'm avoiding them, mad at them, being bitchy... you name it. This is especially true where email is concerned.
If you can't get ahold of someone in the time you expected to, why don't you pick up a damn phone and call them?!? Stop sending a million emails, each one getting snottier than the one before it and call and find out what's going on. Stop emailing everyone that person knows and filling up their email boxes when they don't know any more than you do. The clue phone is ringing answer it and then use it to dial out!!!!!!
Contrary to popular oppinion, sometimes people step away from their computers for a while to take care of real life.
I'm recovering from Breast Cancer treatments, my grandfather is dieing and my aunt died over a week ago in another state so I had to go there. See where I might have steped away from my computer for a few days?!?
For the love of god people... connect and talk to each other once in a while with your REAL voice!!!!
Have we become so impersonal now that we only want to leave messages for people, not talk to them like real human beings? Have you forgotten how to use real emotion and can only use those stupid emoti-cons now?
In short if you have sent someone two emails and they haven't gotten back to you... pick up the farking phone and see if they are alright. Show that you care!!!!!!
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Wed, July 11, 2007 - 4:58 PM
So Sorry
Oh Melody! I'm so sorry to hear that your aunt passed away. I know that you have been worried about your grandpop and that it has been hard for you to deal with. I'm sorry to hear that your friends are cruel.... hope I wasn't one of them. If I was, I'm sorry.... I'll call you later on tonight to see how you are.
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Wed, July 11, 2007 - 6:22 PM
I hear ya on that...it seems even worse when you care for kids and they don't have kids.
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Wed, July 11, 2007 - 9:53 PM
I don't have your telphone number =-(
But I hear you on the not calling. I am very guilty on that. I get all wrapped up in "multi-tasking" that I can't take time to call people as I should. So I will try and correct that.
Hope you are taking care of yourself, I am sorry for your loss, and worry. Tell everyone to just give you what you need to feel better.. well I guess you kinda did that =) you are a VERY out spoken - strong woman ! |
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Thu, July 12, 2007 - 6:40 AM
Big hugs to you, Melody! Come see me at MedFest for a real hug. I'm so sorry for your loss and all the other hardships you're going through. Much love to you!
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Thu, November 22, 2007 - 3:30 AM
i understand you and would like your help
hey Melody,
wow I love it that you can tell it like it is, especially about the emails part, and being away from your computer... god don't I know it.... I'm getting to the point where I only get on it two times a week...... but actually I have another issue that I noticed you have experience with that i need someone to understand me about...... My girl friend of two years now had a double mastectomy last year and it has put a real spin on our relationship.... I have sat through the entire process, with her, and taking her back a forth for treatments and doctors and all that, and I am so angery at the doctor for giving her such a crappy pair of reconstructed boobs, and she feels so insecure with me seeing her nude... she says they grose me out and I don't want to touch them, and all of this crap Melody has just gotten us at our end with each other.... God, I'm sorry that she got cancer..... I love her still..... and yes I don't like them..... bummer right? It's not up to me..... it's her body and her condition, yes....OK..... so do I have to lie to myself and her and tell her that they are beautiful and yes I want to play with them like I did before...???? would that make her feel better and stop hating me for being honest???? I told her how I feel, and she resents me for it big time... and now she is always accusing me of chasing other women and not loving her or giving her four play.... what can i do? I'm a man, I love boobs..... I feel terrible that she got hers removed.... but so now my life is over too right? I am destine to never enjoy a set of boobs ever again right? thanks. dean |
