What Was I Thinking?
Raising Aspies for fun and profit...
Mon, June 20, 2005 - 3:49 PMMy older son has mild Asperger's Syndrome, which is a kind of autism. He functions very well now, as a result of (a way-too-delayed!) proper diagnosis, therapy and medications. Most people who met him since about three years ago have no idea that he sees the world "differently".
"Aspies" take things literally. Very.
I just finished explaining to him, for about the thousandth time, that when his teacher told the class last week during final exams, "If you've worked hard, your grade in this class will be good.", that she didn't mean HE would be failing since he didn't work hard at all.
He doesn't work all that hard. Some subjects, like Math and Science and computers, come easily to him. He has been a straight A student for about the past 3 terms.
"But the teacher said.... "
My life is a lot of things, but it is RARELY boring!
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Mon, June 20, 2005 - 6:25 PM
Your son is very lucky! It's a good thing he at least got a diagnosis while he was still young. I didn't learn why I was different until my early 30s.
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Mon, June 20, 2005 - 7:18 PM
I knew I was different, I just didn't know why. I taught myself, in the mirror, to "do" facial expressions 'cause I was tired of teachers taking me aside and asking me, "What's wrong?"
When I first saw Data trying to be more human in "ST - Next Generation" I just CRACKED THE HELL UP!!! |
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Tue, June 21, 2005 - 12:00 AM
Luckily, you seem like a good mom. That's the most important thing :-)
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Tue, June 21, 2005 - 5:05 AM
My spouse is a special ed teacher and she has been suggesting to me that maybe I might be an aspie. I wouldn't be the only one in my family to be autistic. Can it be, though? However, I must admit that many characteristics strike a chord with me. If it is so, it would explain so much about why I am so different and get stuck sometimes. Man, I have hours under my belt of teaching myself to appear 'normal' and appropriate.
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Tue, September 20, 2005 - 5:50 PM
Wow! You rock!
A good friend of mine has two sons, the older with Austism. It was quite a struggle to get him proper diagnosis and treatment, and to get the school system to take care of it. Whew! We haven't lived near each other since high school, so I'm not really sure how it's been exactly--we just IM each other, mostly--but I know she's got them both in magnet schools now, so, yay! ;P
I also really appreciated your statement in your other post about "just a mom"--I don't have any of my own, but being the oldest of four was a bit of a chore in itself, so I have a bit of an idea! |
