I generally don’t pay much attention to book reviews, but this particular entry caught my eye. The reviewer, human behavior research psychologist Dr. Alan Goldberg, Ph.D., opens by telling us that he had met Jerry L. Moore, author of A Private Diary: Our First Year in Swinging, a couples years earlier at the Lifestyles convention. And he explains that it was he who encouraged Mr. Moore to publish the diary of his exploits in the swinging lifestyle. Given Dr. Goldberg’s involvement, it came... read more

...because you can’t fuck like bunnies on rabbit food alone.

Some of the most pleasurable times I’ve spent with other swingers, beyond the obvious, have been over food. Being the good hedonists that we are, we appreciate good sex, good food, and good drink. When you hit a trifecta, life is very, very good!

Another reason swingers have such enthusiasm for food is that swinging, done with a certain joie de vivre, requires a good deal of energy! As an example, I’ve dropped weight every ... read more

Your kink is not my kink.
And it may never be.
But that doesn’t mean one is better or worse than the other.
Only different.
And the difference comforts me.
I am comforted when you can freely and openly pursue your kink.
Because that means I can freely and openly pursue mine.


The Portland area is like the Baskin-Robbins of alternative lifestyles – there are at least 31 flavors at any given time. So you would think in a town with this much diversity, there’d be a corresponding me... read more

And it would appear he has taken his musical talent with him. I was sitting in traffic earlier this week, listening to a local radio station, when they started talking about a re-release of Elvis' hit "In the Ghetto" where, through the miracle of modern technology, Lisa Marie is singing with him. Cool! Loved it when Natalie Cole was able to sing "Unforgettable" with her father.

Unfortunately, this effort isn't quite up to par. It probably didn't help that the first time I heard it, t... read more