I am a mono person in a relationship with a poly person. I think I am in the stage of reaching down and trying to find what is best for me and the one I love. I've always known he was poly, I've always known that eventually I'd have to deal with him going off and being with his other partners. He and I never really sat down and talked about his poly lifestyle and my mono lifestyle and how we'd work it all out. We've been together for three years, the first two years as just best friends. Even... read more