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KURTIS

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joined on 04/01/12
last updated 04/13/12
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LTHRKWEER

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about me
I'm a 49 year old gay male, considered a bear but a pig at heart! LOL I'm HIV+ and have been since 1989 but EXTREMELY healthy!
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I am SO ANGRY! This WONDERFUL, BEAUTIFUL, INTELLIGENT, THOUGHTFUL, CARING, SWEET, well there just are WAY too many words to describe Gavin but the one that meant the most to me was FRIEND! Gavin passed away a few days ago and I don't believe he quite understood just how much he meant to me. I don't think he knew how much I came to depend on his wisdom and I KNOW he didn't know how much I loved him! I would give ANYTHING to have him safe and sound but that's just my selfish needs.

Gavin... read more
Sat, July 28, 2012 - 10:27 AM permalink - 5 comments
 
Last weekend, I helped my housemate who is also my ex move out of my house. We were a couple for 14 years and we have been housemates since our breakup for just about 5 years. FYI, DO NOT EVER EVER EVER put your lover on your mortgage! LOL We were fortunately much better at being housemates than we ever were as friends but I will admit his leaving was somewhat bittersweet. While I thought the day he actually moved out would be the happiest day of my life, I realized when it was all said ... read more
Wed, May 23, 2012 - 3:08 PM permalink - 3 comments
 
I was reminded this weekend how important it is to be a priority in someone's life. And more important, at least for me anyway, having someone a priority in my life! I suppose my solitude is self inflicted, nobody FORCED me to live in "HOOTERVILLE". I live so far removed from gay life that it's impossible to meet anyone. Some would love to live in a place where you don't even have to lock your door but its extremely lonely. If you've never been lonely, let me tell you the silence is deaf... read more
Sat, April 14, 2012 - 10:26 AM permalink - 1 comment
 
A very wise man gave me advise that I should not allow someone to "get me riled up" but unfortunately, I'M JUST NOT BUILT THAT WAY! Recently, a member of one of the bareback tribes made a posting basically asking for HIV seroconversion. The moderator, JAMES of that group posted the most sanctimonious and judgmental reply and implied the member needed counseling. When I came to the poster's defense, This ASSHOLE MODERATOR, JAMES attempted to embarrass me in the tribe by posting a comment th... read more
Wed, April 11, 2012 - 10:44 PM permalink - 3 comments
 
Why is it that people feel they have the right to preach unsolicited opinions? If someone posts something and you don't agree with it, it is perfectly acceptable to enter in a discussion with the person but there is ABSOLUTELY no reason to reply to the post with YOUR judgment of their character, their intelligence or even their desire that you just don't agree with. You can ask questions, you can even say that you just don't get it but don't offer your opinion that you believe they need cou... read more
Tue, April 10, 2012 - 10:44 PM permalink - 2 comments
 
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My Recent Activity

GAVIN (blog entry) I am SO ANGRY! This WONDERFUL, BEAUTIFUL, INTELLIGENT, THOUGHTFUL, CARING, SWEET, well there just are WAY too many words to describe Gavin but the one that meant the most to me was FRIEND! Gavin passed away a few days ago and I don't believe he ... read more
blog entry posted Sat, July 28, 2012 - 10:27 AM permalink - 5 comments
NEW BEGINNINGS (blog entry) Last weekend, I helped my housemate who is also my ex move out of my house. We were a couple for 14 years and we have been housemates since our breakup for just about 5 years. FYI, DO NOT EVER EVER EVER put your lover on your mortgage! LOL We ... read more
blog entry posted Wed, May 23, 2012 - 3:08 PM permalink - 3 comments
BEING A PRIORITY (blog entry) I was reminded this weekend how important it is to be a priority in someone's life. And more important, at least for me anyway, having someone a priority in my life! I suppose my solitude is self inflicted, nobody FORCED me to live in "HOOTERVIL... read more
blog entry posted Sat, April 14, 2012 - 10:26 AM permalink - 1 comment
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My Testimonials

May 14, 2012
This is one HOT SEXY HUNGERY ASSPIG!!! Not only is he a FFantastic FFucking FFun, but he's just as great a guy. DEFINITELY, worth getting to know.
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