Male

40

I guess I should start by warning you that I tend to ramble from time to time. However, I will try and keep this short....

WHO I AM

I am convinced that at somepoint in time, I have lived in Ireland in at least one previous lifetime. I feel such a connection, almost feeling homesick when I listen to Irish music. I consider myself to be a sensitive and romantic individual, at times loyal almost to a fault. I consider myself to be in touch with my feelings. I am not ashamed or even afraid to admit to or admit my weaknesses.

I have never subscribed to the idea that it is "sissy" or "unmancho" for a man to express his feelings, to cry, or to share his fears. In my opinion it takes a real man to know when to be sensual or to allow himself to be vulnerable; and when he needs to come to the rescue. I would consider myself to be a very faithful and loyal friend & lover. I believe that honesty and communication is extremely important with any relationship. I do not judge the value of someone by their physical appearance and would appreciate the same.

WHAT I AM LOOKING FOR

It has been a while since my last relationship ended and the reason I have waited so long before stepping out again is simple. I wanted to be sure healed enough, that I would be able to devote myself fully to my next relationship and not be on the rebound. Anything else would be unfair to whom ever I start dating again. I am not looking for someone to make me complete, or whole. Nobody can do that for you. Rather, I am looking for someone to share my life with.

I am searching to find that ONE! special person to spend the rest of my life with. I am looking for someone who I can surrender to: body, mind, heart, and soul and someone who can do the same. (I am not referring to bondage, although silk ties can be fun: devil: ). I am searching for someone who can accept me for who I am. I am searching for a partner, someone who can be my best friend, my lover, my confidant. Someone I can share all my secrets with, someone I can play with, dance in the rain with, play in the puddles with, and someone to help me hunt for the gold at the end of the rainbow.

If all you want is a "part-time" lover, don't bother to respond. I am not looking for a one-night stand, nor am looking for sex on the first date. I have had too many relationships disintegrate because sex was part of the relationship too soon. There is so much more to romance and intimacy then sex, and I am looking for someone who understands that. I am looking for someone who wants to build a solid friendship, first. I am looking for someone who understands that just because you move in together or get married does not mean that you stop courting each other nor do you stop working on the relationship.

OTHER STUFF

For those who are curious, I am a Cancer, and while I do not believe that our "Astrological Sign" defines our fate I am a water sign and most definitely a Cancer. I absolutely love the Ocean, and try to get to the beach at least once a month (don't always make it). I enjoy walks along the beach especially night under the full moon and stars. Absolutely love watching the ocean during a storm and hope to have a dream cabin at the coast one day. I love watching the lighting fill the sky and the clap of thunder. I enjoy holding hands with someone I am close to, cuddling close near a roaring fire, listening to the waves crash against the shore, and kissing. I tend to consider myself a romantic. I give excellent foot massages, but they do tend to get me into trouble from time to time.

P.S. Did I mention I tend to ramble?