Looking forward to it! :)
discussion post on Thu, September 25, 2008 - 11:43 PM
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For the new year I seem to be reaping the harvest of my hard work and clear intentions set in the previous year.
Wed, January 17, 2007 - 2:42 AM
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I finally quit smoking and have 30 days nicotine-free! Yay! I just started a really kewl job working as a counselor with dual-diagnosis high-school-aged youth! It feels like a really great fit. I'm also engaged to get serious with my most primary partner - we've been dating for a year now! Woo-hoo! So all in all I'm having a really great year! :)
I'm just finishing up my first year of grad school with a 4.0 GPA, and I've re-established a nice community of friends and lovers. So all my goals have been met! ;)
Tue, August 29, 2006 - 1:52 PM
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Well, maybe I still have a few things to work on. Like finding work in my new field - counseling psychology. Thanks to all of you who have made my transition back to the Bay Area so great! :)
Big life changes for me lately with my move to the south SF Bay area to go to grad school. New housemates, suburban culture shock, really enjoying my classes. Now I just need a few more quality friends and lovers! :)
Wed, October 12, 2005 - 8:14 AM
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Re: Reminder - next Primal is November 8th
(in Primal - November 8)
I would have worded it as "total semi-insanity" actually :)
Looking forward to it! :)
Re: Healthy boundary or controlling behavior?
(in Polyamory)
Yeah, but I didn't have the patience to read his entire post ROFL...
discussion post on Mon, September 22, 2008 - 11:16 PM
Re: Prosperity Is Sexy....
(in The Ethical Sluts)
Thought you might find this interesting...
www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn...29.html discussion post on Mon, September 22, 2008 - 9:16 PM
Re: Healthy boundary or controlling behavior?
(in Polyamory)
I like that suggestion Edward, of uncovering the unmet need underlying the request.
discussion post on Mon, September 22, 2008 - 8:09 PM
Re: S.F. Bay Area roll call & meet up with a twist
(in Friends with benefits)
Probably not going to be that well attended with so many competing events happening this Saturday...
discussion post on Tue, September 16, 2008 - 11:57 PM
Re: infidelity in polyamorous relationships..
(in Polyamory)
In practical terms, this is why I personally find any more than 3 or 4 relationships unmanageable, because there are too many relationships in the system for me. It's just too complex for me to deal with on a practical level.
For others, the op... read more discussion post on Sun, September 14, 2008 - 10:36 PM
Re: infidelity in polyamorous relationships..
(in Polyamory)
To illustrate:
For 2 people or nodes, there is 1 connection or relationship (a line segment). For 3 people or nodes, there are 3 connections or relationships (a triangle). For 4 people or nodes, there are 6 connections or relationships (a squ... read more discussion post on Sun, September 14, 2008 - 10:32 PM
Re: infidelity in polyamorous relationships..
(in Polyamory)
Networking problems become exponentially more complex. I believe that is correct...
discussion post on Sun, September 14, 2008 - 10:17 PM
Re: infidelity in polyamorous relationships..
(in Polyamory)
You're welcome :)
discussion post on Sun, September 14, 2008 - 10:08 AM
Re: infidelity in polyamorous relationships..
(in Polyamory)
The book "The Myth of Monogamy" puts forth the argument that simultaneous mate-guarding while seeking extra-pair couplings (EPCs) is a naturally occurring phenomenon in most of the animal kingdom, including humans.
This behavior, that we humans... read more discussion post on Sun, September 14, 2008 - 9:15 AM
Re: people get hurt
(in Fluid Relationships)
Always a tricky situation, when a relationship is a secret.
Lots of poly people say that it's not their business. Personally I believe that these types of secrets affect the whole system of people involved, and IMHO the hurt really stems fro... read more discussion post on Sun, September 14, 2008 - 8:32 AM
Re: infidelity in polyamorous relationships..
(in Polyamory)
Actually IMHE being able to understand another's framework doesn't really translate into them understanding mine. At least not on the internet LOL.
discussion post on Sun, September 14, 2008 - 8:15 AM
Re: infidelity in polyamorous relationships..
(in Polyamory)
The converse can be equally silly:
"You're poly, so your partner can do anything they want, so that's not cheating." By some people's poly framework and usage, this is absolutely correct. discussion post on Sat, September 13, 2008 - 1:32 PM
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