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What I like (while I'm NOT being erotic on purpose):

WEIGHTLIFTING - formerly a contestant in the Darwin Competition, my signature event being the abdominal roll - the rolling of a barbell down my abdomen to prevent myself from suffocating from trying to do benches without a spotter. I've retired from that competition, though, 'cause now I've got the right equipment.

ENTREPRENEURING - as only we Americans can do. Remember, the French, for example, don't even have a WORD for "entrepreneur". So I'm always open to new business ideas. I have one bread-and butter business that pays for my lifestyle and have another one in the works. You have any bold business ideas?

SELF-IMPROVEMENT - being all that I can be without joining the Army

ADVENTURING - which often means just being too foolish and reckless to be afraid to do what I'm doing

DEBATING, in a friendly manner, but intensely - though maybe the don't look friendly, because I can get so intense. But, I actually love to LOSE debates, because that's when I learn something that I didn't know before

SUNLIGHT - for my maintaining my SUPERPOWERS

SUNDAY NIGHT MOVIES and discussions - movie FIRST, and then dinner and discussion AFTERWARD

CREATING A (THERMO)NUCLEAR FAMILY SOME DAY - "No way!", you say. Way.

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And when I AM being erotic on purpose:

I'm a BDSM DOMINANT and TOP, practicing REAL-TIME (though off and on, admittedly) for about 9 years, and am single. As such, I’ve enjoyed intensely erotic experiences, loving relationships, and valuable friendships and acquaintances over the years in the BDSM communities in Sacramento and San Francisco. While BDSM is my primary kinky pursuit, I've enjoyed fetish (e.g., Masquerade) and goth parties as well.

I’m currently polyamorous and am open to new play partners and friends, though I wouldn’t turn my back on the right opportunity for a committed relationship with my soul-mate. Also, as an experienced trainer, I enjoy introducing novices to the amazing, erotic experiences that this world offers.

My erotic style ...

... VERY PSYCHOLOGICAL, and my FAVORITE PLAY TOOL IS THE HUMAN MIND – the true home of the erotic.

My style of topping is PASSIONATE, SENSUAL, HANDS-ON, TACTILE, and EXPLORATORY. Though I love all my toys, my favorites are my own hands and my mouth. When I play I'm in virtually constant touch with my bottom, with my hands, mouth, or my entire body, and I'm looking for women who love to be touched constantly during play in a very sensual, exploratory, and personal way.

My most favorite things are BONDAGE, EROTIC EXAMINATION OF MY PARTNER’S BODY, SPANKING, CANING (both sadistic and also sensual-endorphin caning), ASS PLAY of all sorts, ELECTRICAL PLAY (off and on), and FUCKING my partner when she is TIED UP AND HELPLESS. I'm also particularly fond of taking my bottom on an Odyssey of Ecstasy - from the beginning wetness and heavy breathing, through a very slow build-up, to the gutteral cries and lurching of an ENDLESS SERIES OF EXTREMELY INTENSE ORGASMS.