Okay while I was walking home dropping my kids off at school I had a stupid random thought.............

Why is it I can NEVER see for myself what others see when I dance?

I have been told that I have a fun, flirty kind of style that just mesmerizes them when they watch me and that I have an unique style and to never change it. When I watch a video of myself dancing all I see is the mistakes and goof ups. Is this a good thing (to drive myself insane this way) or do I need to retrain my brain to see the good as well as the bad?

Like I said stupid thoughts! And what is worse is that these silly thoughts came to mind after seeing a piece of eye candy.............. WTF!