Male

44

Well I 'm married and have two of the greatest kids a man could ever be blessesd with, truly my heart and soul. My wife is my soulmate, a wonderful lady and terrific mother. And Damn sexy! We've been together for fourteen years and known each other much longer, like since the Renaissance Age. I'm kind of a workaholic, love to be busy and productive. Actually I am a highly motivated person, driven to succeed at pretty much anything I set my mind to. Definetely a Type-A personality. I consider myself a Spiritualist. I believe how you are as a spiritual being defines you as a person. "How one thinks, says and does........" I have the Capacity to be very kind, gentle and loving and have a major distain for anyone who is cruel, unkind or a litter bug. I can also be overly critical, opinionated, sometimes stubburn and even to be honest at times spiteful. I would also consider myself a wee bit of a control freak......conflicted I know, but aren't we all. It all depends on which angels I allow to have the better of me at that moment. And Yes, I am working on myself, seeking only progress not perfection. But there is redemption for all that seek it, even me. One of my great gifts is the ability for inter-spection and being truthful with the one person that matters most to be, myself. Having said that, I think myself as someone who's working toward the light within, but not quite there yet. I can be a great friend to anyone in need and usually good at listening to others, opinions......eventually at least, on any subject whether I agree or not. Openmindedness, would best describe how I think. I try to seek out the solutions rather than talk about the problems. I love to travel, usual to warm places read, cook for my family, take my dogs for a long run, trade stocks, hang out with my kids and pamper my wife. Which leds me to why I am here. I guess to better understand certain aspects of myself, spirituality, sexuality and alternative lifestyles and marriages.