It seems when I don't know the way to go it is better to wait to decide. Everything gets more clear the more time you allow. There is a saying ~ Anything will reveal it's secrets if you Love it enough~ It takes time to Love something like that. I like to leave the decisions open till the last possible minute, then I have had the most time to think about it. To put as much energy into it as possible. Observation is a wonderful tool. Things become obvious eventually. Even when you think you know exactly the way things should be, it helps to pause and allow time for a decision. The extra time lets me see the situation in another light. It is a blessing to not feel rushed to a decision. It is nice to have the time to allow my path to become more clear.