joined on 02/05/07
last updated 09/30/08
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A hoop in one hand and a cock in the other!
about me
The Sloot previously known as Shadjua. (and you thought Shadjua was hard to pronounce!)
Moi? hmm.... I am.... different. But then again, aren't we all? I grew up in a small village on the coast of the great pacific. Just between Stepford and Frontierland. Where everyone is white and straight. Where all the pretty boys surf and all the pretty girls play volleyball, and all their parents are on the PTA.
Then there was the rest of us. The fatties, the poor kids, the fags, the not so white kids, the kid who liked to throw things, anyone who was even slightly different than the mold. Those were my peeps. Still are.
I value my friends like family. I keep my friends for life. I am a great lover of people in general. I believe in the goodness of humankind. (Even if we are very shortsighted in a lot of ways). I am a total momma's boy. I am a happily married gay man. My husband is my best friend and I love him with every inch of my being. I'm a student at Cal Poly SLO. I have got to be the worlds longest running senior. I started college at 17, at 28 I'm still crawling through my BA. Ah. where did the time go? Well mostly working (got make the paper) and slacking off (ie. hanging with my friends, hooping, traveling, festivals, partying, camping, hiking, biking, ect. I guess I got kinda distracted.) Yep, that about sums me up.
Cloud Forest of Monteverde, Costa Rica
Looking for a miracle...
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We are three hardworking men in our 20's looking to relocate to the Bay Area for work and for school. We are searching for anything from a sub lease, or a large studio to a 2 bedroom apartment. We can pay up to $1500 per month, last months rent an...
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Starting the Healing Process.
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It is with a very heavy heart that I share with you all that Proposition 8 did indeed pass with a 52% vote, thus removing the right to marriage for same gender couples in the state of California.
I know many of you share the grief that I do with ...
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Not my tribe.
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OK I can understand Myspace advertising for Yes on 8, but tribe.net?!?
I understand that money speaks, but I always understood this site to be about building unity and connections, not about tearing them apart. I must say, I'm a little disapointed
The Sloot formally known as Shadjua....
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Yes, times change, people change...I've changed! As part of a (semi)mass consciousness known (or unknown) as the Vandersloot Family Circus, I shall now be known as my Sloot name: Bösendorfer Vandersloot! It may seems strange at first, but once yo...
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Marriage now legal for ALL Californians!
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that's right kiddies. The California Supreme court just passed an amendment stating that marriage is now legal for gays and lesbians!!!!
We are three hardworking men in our 20's looking to relocate to the Bay Area for work and for school. We are searching for anything from a sub lease, or a large studio to a 2 bedroom apartment. We can pay up to $1500 per month, last months rent and deposit if necessary. We have a very well behaved dog and 2 housetrained cats and we are willing to provide an additional pet deposit as well. Unfortunately we are all still recovering from bad credit, resulting from medical bills and college debt....
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Tue, December 16, 2008 - 3:23 PM
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It is with a very heavy heart that I share with you all that Proposition 8 did indeed pass with a 52% vote, thus removing the right to marriage for same gender couples in the state of California.
I know many of you share the grief that I do with the passing of this proposition. During these past few months I have seen you out there with your protest signs while people yelled at you and threatened you. You came out to your friends and families as a gay/lesbian, or as an ally. You made phone ...
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Wed, November 5, 2008 - 11:32 AM
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OK I can understand Myspace advertising for Yes on 8, but tribe.net?!?
I understand that money speaks, but I always understood this site to be about building unity and connections, not about tearing them apart. I must say, I'm a little disapointed
Mon, November 3, 2008 - 12:06 PM
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Yes, times change, people change...I've changed! As part of a (semi)mass consciousness known (or unknown) as the Vandersloot Family Circus, I shall now be known as my Sloot name: Bösendorfer Vandersloot! It may seems strange at first, but once you get the hang of it, it just feels right. Like a little party in your mouth. Try it. boo-sen-dor-fer van-der-sloot. ok, now again. booooo-seeeeen-doooor-feeer vaaan-deeer-sloooooooot.
If you can't hang with that, try Bösie (everyone else has)
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Tue, September 30, 2008 - 5:02 PM
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that's right kiddies. The California Supreme court just passed an amendment stating that marriage is now legal for gays and lesbians!!!!
Thu, May 15, 2008 - 11:23 AM
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! Androgyny Is Hot!,
! Naked sun,
! Sexiest Smile !,
<3 LOVE FEST 2007 <3,
**I GOT TESTED!**,
*queer poly*,
2007 BM Virgins,
::: SLO Burn Community :::,
alternative gay people,
ANAIS NIN,
Anon Salon,
Bay Area Hoopers,
Bi Guys and the People Who Love Them,
big dicked gay men,
Big Sur,
Bohemian Carnival,
Burning Man,
Burningman Queers,
Cal Poly Biodiesel,
California Radical Faeries,
...
May 21, 2007
Shadjua is an amazing guy! Sexy, smart, fun, unavailable... he's perfect! haha... I'm so glad to have met him and his beautiful husband, and no he's not from S.F., he's not from L.A., he lives right here in our little hamlet of San Luis Obispo. See there ARE cool people here!
Also, you should know he's an amazing hooper, look out! ; >
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