I know none of us are suppose to really have the answers, but how do you move forward when someone loses their child at 16? A friend's nephew just 16 drowned in a pool at the families reunion. What do you say? there are no words just emptiness, and loss, no answers, only sorrow... My heart feels so painfully for this family... It is a part of life, and yet we never know just how many gifts in days we have left. Do everything today and now, tell everyone you care about how much you love them, live not with regret, for our time here is only moments, and when we are gone that is what we will have is the moments that are forever etched in our minds...