Do you make love or have sex? The former is what it is all about, but the latter would certainly be nice once in a while.

So women take their clothes off and pose seductively for my camera, but not for me. Art must suffice, then.

A relationship? Sometimes I think so, sometimes I'm less sure. My divorce was not fun at all, but I'm very glad it's done, now. I feel freer than I have in many years.

I'm hiding behind this kinda neat tribe handle mostly because I feel more than a bit awkward exploring sexuality. I don't expect to meet anyone in person from here without first telling her my real name and giving her links to the sites where I am not hiding, but also where I am generally not advertising that I'm looking for love or lust or soulmate or something like that.