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Michelle

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joined on 08/09/04
last updated 10/15/08
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My Testimonials

March 21, 2008
One of the most open minded and open hearted women I have ever met. She has helped me to open doors I thought would either stay locked forever or that I didn't even know existed. Beautiful, kind, and caring, with a smile that will warm your heart.
This is a one-of-a-kind woman!
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June 22, 2007
I love this woman! She is smart, independent, and yes, sexy! And she offers her her talents as a fashion consultent for free...and boy do I need it!
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December 31, 2006
While anything I can say about Michelle will never be truly enough, I feel compelled to at least say how much I deeply appreciate my friendship with her. She has encouraged me time and time again to pursue this lifestyle when I have been too shy and too long isolated to even know where to start. And when I have hit snags that hurt and made me want to pull away from it all she always has the right things to say.

A wonderful wit, great conversationalist, and of course very sexy to boot! I am pleased to be able to find a place to say "you're awesome Michelle!"
August 9, 2004
First of all, michelle is a bit of a rare treasure...

In what ways?

she is totally non-judgmental; she gives support to people who are looking to fill their dreams (i know), even if these dreams are ones that many (much less secure) people would judge, "diss," discourage you from wanting, try to make you feel bad for wanting such a thing ("Hrrrumph! The very idea! What's wrong with you?!"), or they try to talk you out of your dreams (possibly for not daring to have any original ones of their own).

But, unlike those small-minded insecure types, michelle clearly realizes that HER life is distinct from YOURS, and that everyone has their own unique formative experiences, unique desires & needs, unique dreams.

She is (thankfully) secure enough in herself that she realizes supporting others' dreams, even ones VERY different from hers, does not threaten her, does not in some evil way mean somehow *she* has to have those same dreams for her.

(Yet, ridiculous and illogical such a thing is, so many people DON'T get that real basic thing, and are going around afraid + judging others' differences. What's your problem, dudes & dudettes? Get a friggin life!)

She's NOT one of those insufferable, no fun to be around, illogical, and sometimes dangerous, morons. She so obviously knows that other people have a right to dream whichever direction, color, shape, flavor, texture, storyline, for their own lives, without unnecessary judgment from an outsider it does not affect.

To underline this a bit more: Even things michelle has said "No Way" is she ever into herself, unh-uh, no can do... she is still discerning enough to realize this is *your* unique stuff, not hers, and so she supports, listens, encourages, without ever telling YOU what's right for YOU.

Talk about mature, wise, and wonderfully intelligent. (Did i mention she's really, really intelligent, thoughtful, she sees inside things, wants to understand & explore the 'why' -- but without being tedious, dry or boring?

Active minds which are unafraid and non-judgmental are SO nice to associate with!

Talking with her is so refreshing, after dealing with all the meddling, more whatever than thou, plain vanilla folks who just *must* live some pretty boring lives, who seem to be afraid of their own shadows, appear afraid even to try anything different, challenging or original, one time, which they just might learn from.

[oops, a little touch of caustic sarcasm... so sorry to the boring 'fraidy-cat people out there.]

What else? michelle goes out of her way to research and find hookups, info, help, connections, which she didn't need to do.

she has been encouraging about things she did't need to, nothing in it for her. Just her basic goodness, as far as i can see.

she has agreed to try ideas that i think others might not want to involve themselves with, but she did, i think because she saw it would help a friend, and she was able to use her sharp analytical part, with her accurate intuiton, to know there was no down side in it for her, so why hold back out of illogical, needless reticence?

she also has the other side, the tiger which will truly defend against anyone who is not ethical or fair. But, play fair with her, value and care about each other's feelings and needs, and i don't think you need to worry unduly about seeing that side of her.

i am late for something & must go, but just wanted to say some honest feedback qnd add some honest feelings about her, so you will have a peek at who's behind this name.
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(Geez, guess I'm gonna have to update this section again, the below is now over 2 years old! I'll get to it eventually...)

Boy this update is a very long time coming...

After a few years out of the kink community, hmm come to think of it, I actually didn't spend much time in it the first time out...lol. However, now I am back happily exploring again and having a wonderful time!

Recently I have been spending as much time as possible at The Citadel and other events around the Bay Area where, I have to say, I have met some truly wonderful people. I am grateful for this, being the social butterfly that I am, that there is such an amazing group of lovely, supportive and friendly people here in the Bay Area who also happen to share my particular "kinky" interests.

Thanks to everyone who have been so open and welcoming to a relative newbie. Looking forward to continuing my explorations and meeting new friends.
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Is anyone having the same problems that I am? I can read blogs, post a blog, see my home page, etc...but I still have been unable to read any individual tribe posts since Tribe came back online yesterday. Is it just my computer or is it Tribe? Apparently people have been able to post on individual tribes, but I can't even get on them. Any suggestions?
Wed, September 10, 2008 - 12:45 PM permalink - 4 comments
 
I would like to wish all my favorite men on Tribe, who also happen to be father's, a very Happy Father's Day!

You all enrich my life in so many ways and I hope that you are enjoying a lovely and joyous day with that special child (or children) in your life.

Love to you all.
Sun, June 15, 2008 - 12:49 PM permalink - 0 comments
 
LIVING LIFE BACKWARDS

I want to live my next life backwards:

You start out dead and get that out of the way.

Then you wake up in an old age home feeling better every day.

Then you get kicked out for being too healthy.

Enjoy your retirement and collect your pension.

Then when you start work, you get a gold watch on your first day.

You work 45 years until you're too young to work.

You get ready for High School: drink alcohol, party, and be sexually
promiscuous.

Then ... read more
Mon, May 21, 2007 - 6:22 PM permalink - 6 comments
 
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