joined on 08/02/07
last updated 06/05/08
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about me
Deep, curious, polyamorous guy, with an exploratory take on life. Deist. Married. Ever learning, discovering and redefining the 'operating parameters' of my life. Like to read, write, sing, play piano, guitar, saxophone, bass, percussion. Love to ride (motorbike). Am passionate about Salsa. Witty, fun to talk to. Challenging-- impossible to box in. Fiercely independent. Believe in the individual's right and duty to define their own reality. Viva l'individualite'! I Believe in love, and seek its purest expression. INTP (Introverted iNtuitive Thinking Perceptive). I gush (eeeek!!!), much to my perpetual annoyance, once love is stirred or kinship (in spirit) discovered. Current reading: Nietzsche's 'Beyond good and evil' , 'Studies in the psychology of Sex' by Havelock Ellis, DH Lawrence's 'Fantasia of the unconscious'.......... I am reeling, tumbling, reveling in the wonder of life.
kiss from a rose on a grave
(blog entry)
When life catches you by surprise, you sometimes just need to take it all in stride and go with the flow. Resistance only causes you to hurt yourself. Denial only postpones the inevitable: the realization that it couldn't, shouldn't, musn't have b...
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On being a world changer
(blog entry)
To be a world changer or to be a world accepter. That is the question.
Our significance in this life is not measured by how much we acquire, how much of the world's resources we hoarde, but by how much we give of ourselves to the commonwealth o...
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The Singular Singularity
(blog entry)
Can you imagine what the Universe must have felt like, not being able to share, to be known, appreciated and loved by, you?
When the Universe was the only consciousness?
The Singular Singularity?
When nothing but the Universe existed. When the ...
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PolyZed-- The singularity
(blog entry)
Once every three weeks or so, I go online, google 'polyamory, zambia' and come up with a blank (blank being, for me, nothing useful-- just a couple of my blog links and online dating/matchmaker site links that fill you with false hope till you rea...
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Deeper
(blog entry)
It only gets deeper
it only gets richer
This bond that we share
This feeling that's there...
inexplicable,
unfathomable,
certain as the sunrise
refreshing as the dew.
We know what it feels like,
but to define it is to kill it;
so we l...
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When life catches you by surprise, you sometimes just need to take it all in stride and go with the flow. Resistance only causes you to hurt yourself. Denial only postpones the inevitable: the realization that it couldn't, shouldn't, musn't have been any other way.
Your circumstances today are as you need them to be.There are lessons to be learned, realizations to be come to, growth to be done. And when you learn to go with the flow, you learn to go with, rather than fight, nature/God...
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To be a world changer or to be a world accepter. That is the question.
Our significance in this life is not measured by how much we acquire, how much of the world's resources we hoarde, but by how much we give of ourselves to the commonwealth of humanity; to the uplifting of the fallen; to the creation of a society or at least to our contribution to the creation of a society, in which love is the supreme guide, motivation and determinant of our actions and decisions; and in which life, reg...
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Can you imagine what the Universe must have felt like, not being able to share, to be known, appreciated and loved by, you?
When the Universe was the only consciousness?
The Singular Singularity?
When nothing but the Universe existed. When the only thing that was was the One.
You think you know loneliness, when you find yourself sitting alone in a bar, sipping on an ice cold beverage, and seeing guys and girls come in in pairs or groups, as you witness their gaiety or camaraderie.. But...
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Once every three weeks or so, I go online, google 'polyamory, zambia' and come up with a blank (blank being, for me, nothing useful-- just a couple of my blog links and online dating/matchmaker site links that fill you with false hope till you read that they have 'members from all around the world' or are open to membership from Argentina to Zambia).
Being a singularity isn't easy.
Sui generis would be a misnomer, though its the only thing that could in anyway describe the phenomenon o...
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It only gets deeper
it only gets richer
This bond that we share
This feeling that's there...
inexplicable,
unfathomable,
certain as the sunrise
refreshing as the dew.
We know what it feels like,
but to define it is to kill it;
so we let it float free
we let it run wild
We let it course through our veins
with our very life-blood.
We don't try to pretend
We don't predict or portend
We just are...
When I miss you, you know it.
When you miss me, i know it too...
Somet...
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