December 8, 2006
What I would say about Vinny, even if I weren't married to him:
Vinny has the biggest heart of anyone I know. Its only fitting that we are to one day become "Lochearts."
But anyway, he has the ability to truely see people. He gets people. He cares.
I admire Vinny because he says what he thinks. He's not afraid to tell the truth, or tell people that they are full of shit. I admire this, because I can't do that, and I think it challenges people.
He creates art because its his insides coming out. Its like getting out all the good the bad and the ugly, and he has to do it. Like, breathing.
Watching him become a dad has been a pleasure. I've never seen him look at someone or somthing the way he looks at Tiger. Complete papa love. I know it scares the shit out of him, but he's doing everything right.
He is my husband, and I'm the luckiest gal around. He loves me in every way that he should. He listens and is open to me, and no matter how crappy things get we always manage to steer the ship back on course.
His sense of humor is a part of our relationship that is lots of fun. He keeps that fire burning by being a little stinker sometimes.
Whenever he leaves I can't wait till he returns. I can't wait to tell him about my days, and to hear about his. He's my best friend, my husband, my lover, and the only person I could spend the rest of my life with. THANK YOU VINNY!
