Shards of Thought

The Hazards Of Carpooling

   Sat, November 3, 2007 - 10:57 AM
For the last few weeks I have been riding an hour to the job site with a coworker. He listens to country music. It would be hard to overstate my abhorrence of country music, but etiquette keeps me from asking him to change the station. It's his truck, his radio, his time. He can listen to what he likes and I know he prefers country above all else.

However, listening to one hour of country is like listening to 4 straight hours of a 3 yr old whining. I would rather listen to a dental drill all the while. It comes close to physically nauseating me. Once to the job site or home I rush to a radio to wash the bad flavor out of my mind with another kind of music. Worse, is the fact that through the repetition of hearing the same songs day after day I'm learning some of them enough to get the chorus stuck in my head. Oh, it hurts.

For the record, I'm a referring to only new country pop. I love Johnny Cash, Waylon, Willie, and others who are seldom ever heard these days.



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Sat, November 3, 2007 - 3:19 PM
Are you paying half gas? If you are then I can't see why you should have to listen to his music all the time.

Maybe you ought to bring a CD of something you like.
Sun, November 4, 2007 - 6:47 PM
hard one
earphones / IPOD

.... music is a really important part of a lot of people's morning and afternoon drive. So either work up the bolls and tact to ask him to consider expanding his musical horizons or suffah. i grew up in Texas and developed a hate for country myself but why suffer when a simple conversation might actually solve the problem?
Mon, November 5, 2007 - 2:37 AM
Nature of the Beast
I don't pay for gas. The driver neither expects it nor would accept it. He's a crusty old retired guy that is working this job just to keep him from sitting home and drinking himself to death. Keeping a conversation going with him would make Sisyphus's job look easy. He's so laconic that he'd make Clint Eastwood's western characters look loquacious by comparison. If I ride with him today, I will ask to change the station. I don't have what it takes to last another day.
Wed, November 28, 2007 - 7:51 AM
Zen & the art of tact...
Once again we agree on one of life's crucial issues.
Personally, I have come to abhor most everything coming
out of the "music industry". However; once or twice a year
I'll catch a lyric that makes me go "hmmmmm..." I digress.

I would have opted for really good headphones and a book on CD
because I am not tactful enough to initiate a dialog on irritating
differences in personal taste.
So what is on your MP3 & why...[people.tribe.net/walksbyfa...fa4efca86]
WBF 8)