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Thu, July 12, 2007 - 11:37 PM
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Fri, July 13, 2007 - 3:43 AM
Knowledge of skill, and continuing forward with that.
---Yesterday morning I got to listen as someone utterly destroyed his company, his reputation, his body of knowledge, for nothing. Just In Case, I told the situation to an associate, just in case I had missed something, misinterpreted something, and the associate agreed that yes, what had existed doesn't exist any more. And as a further double check, the associate himself very successfully runs a major department of his business, has done so for some time, and successes continue to occur there, so the associate himself has skill, and continues on. After The Idiot had gone and utterly self destructed I found myself Very rattled, very distracted, had to particularly focus while doing some research and assorted problem solving for some people, but did get the project work done---just because the complete idiot decided to wind up a complete, useless waste, didn't mean I had to, or have any interest or plan to. |
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Fri, July 13, 2007 - 1:30 PM
Love and hope that the trust can be rebuilt...it takes time, and it takes effort. But if both parties want to trust each other again, it can be done with open & honest communication. Just give it time and feed it with love.
*hug* Hope to see you in September!! :) |
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Mon, July 16, 2007 - 5:58 PM
Trust - yes, a deep subject indeed.
Interestingly, with trust comes love, but love does not always come with trust. Trust can be (1) a developed habit, or (2) a trait of personal character. Trust as a part of one's character is easier for a person to build and grow; however, a more difficult characteristic to regain if the trust has been breached. On the other hand it is a more difficult habit to build, but easier to break and move on without trusting again. I believe if trust is part of a person's character, one should do everything in his or her power to retain that aspect of character by not letting a single instance of betrayal destroy all other forms of trust. But one should learn from it - while continuing to trust in other ways - and eventually that person will learn to trust again in that same way of the "betrayed" trust. A person must decide for him or herself which trust they possess. Is trust it a part of personal character, or a habit that was learned? If it is part of character, although difficult, a person should not let one instance of distrust ruin all types of trust that exists in their character. And if one's trust is borne from habit, they should not just "break" the habit of trusting, but should learn from it and continue in an the attempt to develop trust as an aspect of their character. The bottom line is, without trust you can still be left with many things - including love. But you cannot allow yourself to block out the ability to learn to trust again. |
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Mon, August 13, 2007 - 11:09 PM
You are left with yourself, and the knowledge that you can depend on and trust in yourself to continue on for those who trust in you.
-Sausan |
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Tue, September 18, 2007 - 4:42 AM
One is left with hope and self - the two necessary ingredients to trusting again, most likely elsewhere.
I, from personal experience, do not feel that trust is ever truly rebuilt in the same area where it once resided. |
