Male

46

I have my own life, that I have no intentions of sugar coating or giving up for anyone. I can be opinionated and foul-mouthed. And radical, and disturbing. While my intent is never to offend, if you can't deal then don't look.

I live in Norfolk, Virginia. I spend a lot of time (and first drew breath) in NYC, and grew up in Europe. I am a chaos magician and hold Taoist/Zen/Tantric beliefs. I'm also an artist, filmmaker, and photographer. I went to grad school for psychology, and I hold a day job as a Unix System Admin & security geek. I drink a lot of coffee. I care about world affairs. I read. I write sometimes, even music. I love music, BTW. I'm always interested in chatting with smart girls. I'm single. I'm polyamorous. I am an activist. I am a parent. I've been married. Twice. I am a veteran. I'm usually very social and I love going out with friends, partners, or alone. I am a Daddy, a guydyke, and a Top.

The rest, you'll just have to ask about.

I’m a walking nightmare, an arsenal of doom
I kill conversation as I walk into the room
I’m a three line whip
I’m the sort of thing they ban
I’m a walking disaster
I’m a demolition man
-- The Police

There are at least two kinds of games. One could be called finite, the other infinite. A finite game is played for the purpose of winning, an infinite game for the purpose of continuing the play.
-- James Carse