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I want a husband who is already happy...
Sat, June 27, 2009 - 4:37 PMI have a real happiness in my life these days. I notice it takes eating well, exercising, being expressive creatively, being patient with myself, knowing my boundaries, loving who I am to achieve this. And it's hard. I'm looking for someone who does all this stuff for himself. Because people who don't this for themselves tend to look for people to take care of them, and that's just draining to be around.
I'm grateful to have learned the lessons I've learned about taking care of myself. I see a lot of suffering around me and it's scary.
I'm happy a lot of the time and I'm looking for someone to be happy with, including their very own happiness to offer to the picture.
Thanks universe for working with me on this.
Love,
Aschleigh
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Sat, June 27, 2009 - 4:51 PM
I second that emotion.
Except for the Husband thing. I want a good Woman. I don't NEED a woman... I just.... same as you. Love. KK |
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Sun, June 28, 2009 - 7:05 PM
You got the right idea girl.
Find someone you like the way they are. To many women find a man they like, but.... He probably won't change no matter how much you love him or how hard you try. Find one you can love and live with his flaws. We are all flawed, we are human. Good luck Darlin. |
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Mon, June 29, 2009 - 1:56 AM
I heard a story a while back about a woman who was looking for a divine husband. she saw that she would be healing soon and prayed that God would send her someone special full of love and happiness. She felt confident that divine was a merciful and that intentions answered prayer, and waited patiently. Soon, a hansom prince came by dressed as a pauper, and offered his hand. But the she hated something about that style, and snubbed him and said that god was going to send her a King who looks like her favorite actor. As time went on the healing continued she felt joy but something was missing ... the she heard a shout and saw a man in a boat. But she didn't think the man looked like he was the owner of the boat he, so just knew she would know. she told him to run along now I'm searching for my beloved, and not to worry because my Intentions is going to send him. Well, pretty soon realizing this healing thing is a life long project and mission and as time went on she wondered if he would ever show up. The woman never met her King. Yet she saw him many times. When the woman faced God she asked God what happened. She was so disappointed because she had told everyone that she had the right intentions and did everything right, and that she was sure God would answer her prayers. God replied, "I sent all in one; a royal Prince, a tycoon with a boat, and a divine king and you turned him down. I provided a way for you. You just didn't answer." |
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Tue, June 30, 2009 - 6:07 PM
Aschleigh, be careful in setting yourself up in the marriage business. Yes, you may find exactly what you're looking for, but simply looking for a husband without the hope of achieving love (at no point in this post have you mentioned love) is, in the end, an empty vessel. Happiness without emotional content is like Hamlet's lament: full of sound and fury, signifying nothing.
In Ancient Rome, most marriages were political arrangements, or matched sets between families. There were few marriages for love, and in light of all I've read about you, I find it hard to believe that you would rule out love and settle for "a good man". |
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Tue, June 30, 2009 - 6:51 PM
I didn't mention love because I know with me it's implicit.
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