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Where to start.....?????
I was born in Horseheads a small town in Upstate New York, thrilling beyond anyones imagination... I am still suprised that I actually clawed my way out. I am the 2nd of 5 children. I was raised by my grandmother (fathers side)... no...parents are not dead... just very abusive. There comes a time when even a child says... "screw this, I'm outa here". My grandmother was strict, but gave me the freedom to explore life without any safety net to fall on. If I screwed up... I got a smack on the back of the head... and the lesson was learned... (sometimes... giggle)

She taught me the most important life lessions...
1.) Never REGRET a decision... you make it... you stick by it...no matter what.
2.) Never say "If only..." the past is done... move on...
3.) NEVER WRITE A CHECK YOUR ASS CAN'T CASH!!!!!
4.) Never stand at a CROSSROADS too long... (more on this wisdom.... later)
5.) Majick .....always has consequences....

I moved to New York City to chase the dream of performing on Broadway!!!
(Very SHORT version....)
I attended 5 different schools/colleges for the performing arts.... got kicked out of 3... Graduated from Ithaca College, and spent a few years touring with several Broadway Shows, working the Renaissance Fair circuit (Tuxedo Park, Sterling, Pittsburgh, Toronto Canada...)

To pay off my college loans... I joined the NAVY... (that is a whole bucket of DRAMA that I will save for another time...) During this time I met the man that I would settle down with... we have now been together for 12 years.(Did I have to mention that I am gay... hmmmm go figure...) We moved to San Diego CA about 6 years ago, and have had the time of our lives.

I currently work for a furniture import comapny. We specalize in antique/historical reproductions,and get to meet alot of "interesting" people... (read my BLOG.) This company will be downsizing and closing the San Diego Showroom in April 08... I will be moving forward and opening my own candle company called Candlesmith.

Thats about it for now... I will add more or refine what is written as time passes...