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February 21, 2008
shelly has yummy hair and tells wicked funny stories.. :) she's delightfully lovely..
October 4, 2007
Shelly's awesome. When I worked up the courage to come to my first munch, she welcomed me in, introduced me to people, and generally made me feel part of the group. With her ever-present grin and ebullient laugh, she is an excellent community-builder. Thanks, Shelly. :)
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about me
Life is always in flux isn't it? I'm bad at writing these things. I'll do my best to give you a peek into who I am, but if you really want to get to know me, send me a message.

I've been around the BDSM scene since summer of 2006, but I see my involvement as a journey, not just a way to get to some random end. Keeping that in mind, I'm still learning a lot about myself and what I want in life. I have pretty strong submissive tendencies but some would still call myself a switch. I'm like a 80/20 sub I guess. I really enjoy throwing my fellow subs under the big yellow bus (that's why they say your best assistant in a scene is another sub)... I'm not looking for people for me to top. I have one boy I see on occasiaion, and he uses up ever last ounce of toppiness I get...

For me, submission is about trust: trusting someone enough to give up control. My dominant persona is who I am in the everyday world. During my submission, I want to give that all up to someone trust worthy of it.

People like to ask about limits a lot of the time. I really only have three: scat, children, and animals. Does that mean I'll do anything with everyone, no, but it does mean that with the right dominant and the right amount of time and trust in the relationship, I'm willing to move beyond what I think I might be capable of at this moment in time. That's really the power of an intense relationship, a power exchange between to people...

After all the serious talk, I am a bit of a brat (in a good way I promise). I just moved to the Bay Area, CA in September of 2006, so I'm still getting my bearings (how long do I get to use that excuse?).

I'm a member of a social group for people under 35 who are interested in BDSM so if you're in the South Bay area and are looking to meet other people your age, send me a message or a wink.
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So my rent is going up again... and it's becoming not worth the apartment I have....

So I'm looking for either (for under $1100):

- a studio/1 bedroom in Mountain View, Palo Alto, or south of there near caltrain

- a shared situation with one other person (most likely) who's poly/kinky/lgbt friendly/aware

So if you know of anything or anyone, send it my way....
Mon, July 25, 2011 - 10:53 PM permalink - 0 comments
Edges, the dungeon in Santa Clara, CA needs your help. The full newsletter is available at with all of the links. Here is the body of the message for you. Edges has been where our local TNG group, SB TNG has met since it was created. Anything you can do to help would be appreciated.


Edges (our community dungeon and education space) in Santa Clara, CA faces potential closure within 120 days due to planning depart... read more
Sat, March 13, 2010 - 3:29 PM permalink - 0 comments
Come on out and stroll the seedy streets! SB TNG presents Pimps and Hos, a party where you can let your wild side out for a walk. Use the entire dungeon space to pick up lady (or gentleman) of the night. Take them into a dark corner and have your way with them. Take a turn as a pimp and make sure your hos are out working hard and bringing the cash home. Punish them for losing customers or reward them for bringing in the best johns (or janes). Collect the most hos as possible to increase your ... read more
Sun, January 31, 2010 - 8:02 PM permalink - 0 comments
Come on down to Edges this New Year's Eve for a double treat of events.

First Edges presents the Wet Spots.... Yes, *THE* Wet Spots ( Come down to the show at 6pm at Edges on the 31st and see a special brand of sex comedy.

(See our flier at

After the crowd's all hot and wet from the show, join South Bay TNG for an amazing Black and White Ball to bring in the New Year. With amazing... read more
Mon, December 14, 2009 - 6:18 PM permalink - 0 comments
This month is really special! Knotty Sunday School and SB TNG Naughty Sunday School are combining forces to welcome the fabulous Mike West down to the south bay for a class on chest harnesses and hog ties. Bring your rope and a body to tie and let's have a wonderful time!

Presenter Bio: Mike West is a Shibari (Japanese-style rope bondage) rigger in San Francisco California. He teaches rope classes through out the area and his underground bondage cabaret, Rope:Burn, just celebrated its 3rd ... read more
Mon, June 29, 2009 - 11:21 PM permalink - 0 comments
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