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Bonnie Margay

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joined on 02/11/04
last updated 03/02/08
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Abject worship

September 7, 2006
Bonnie Rocks my socks! She so super sweet and supports my pants addiction. What more could a pants addict want. Anyway even though we haven't met in person in all my contacts with her she has been super sweet and wonderful. We all love Bonnie!!
Unsu...
 
March 13, 2006
Bonnie what can I say in mere words to express all of the positive feelings and thoughts and wonderful things that are you? I am not a writer and I know that whatever I write in no way could ever do wonderful you justice. It's BIG the great task you are here to perform. You touch our hearts, you give of your soul selflessly, you express so openly. You are a boon to human kind. You are an inspration to woman kind. You care about others so completely and I am inspired by your example. Love and light to you. Love and light to all that are a part of your life.
January 16, 2006
**~** Bonnie **~**

You are the BOMB!
Even though we have only had a few brief encounters
I recognize you to be one of the loveliest people
I have ever met.

You are refreshingly GENEROUS
with your time, with your heart, with your LOVE

You are undeniably COMMITTED to making a
positive contribution to your Come-unity and to the planet
with all that you stand for, with how you show up, with the bits of wisdom and insight that you openly share.

You are silly, witty, hilarious, courageous, strong, beauty-full and infinitely more.

I acknowledge you for your willingness be fully self expressed in the face of opposition.

Thank you for your radiant inspiration.

Namaste'
July 4, 2005
Bonnie has posted a new (or rather, old) photograph in her profile; an 80s hair picture. It so moved me that I simply had to comment.

In viewing it, we are at once confronted by the stark reality, expressed so well by the many shades of grey. How like our own lives, where we so often look for the simplest of answers, the least common denominator, but are continually frustrated by the emotional and psychological shades of grey that confront us.

The hair flying back adequately expresses our shock at the sea of chaotic relativism, which often threatens to envelop us. Is the smile authentic, or does it represent the “brave face” that many try to put forward, mindful of the existential crisis brewing within. The earrings likewise symbolize this eternal conflict, the never-ending wheel from which most ultimately realize they cannot escape. Those with “ears to hear” understand the potential futility of the struggle for inherent meaning.

Is that meaning pre-existent, or merely self-created, a faint hope against a tide of randomness, of existential absurdity? Are we guilty of the Sartrean “bad faith”, ignoring the awful truth to avoid the inescapable consequences of our discovery? Like Roquentin, do we risk confrontation with being-as-it-is, with all of the attendant horror and wonder that such an epiphany provides?

80s music and fashion can only further add to our despair.
March 19, 2004
I love Bonnie. But she doesn't know. She is a nice mommy and I'm glad she married my Laura mommy. She made the best catnip pocket from one of the pockets of my mommy's old pair of shorts. I love my catnip pocket! She made me a really great sleeping nest in a cubby hole with a blankie and everything. She keeps me company all day. Thank you Bonnie for loving me back. And thank you for London Broil. Purrrrrrrrrrrr.
February 11, 2004
This girl is a genius! I'm not just saying that because she is my wife either. Bonnie is easily the smartest person I know. Amazing writer, brilliant scholar, sweet woman, research guru, wickedly funny, coupon queen are just a few of the areas in which Bonnie excels. And she puts up with me! I'm the luckiest girl in the world that this beautiful woman with such a deep soul has allowed me into her life. She is my soulmate, forever and a day, to the stars and back. I love you my angel.
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Gypsy Night - super secret spy camera!

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I'm a little purple raincloud

Age
35
about me
I believe in creating positive change through loving kindness, compassionate abiding, and art that honors the feminine.
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Laura's dance

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Water in my ear

I've got water in my ear, I've got water in my ear.
Here's my hair, here's my hair, here's my hair!
Here's my boobies, not for you! Here's my boobies, not for you!
Get out! Get out! Get out!
Who's that in the audience? Who's that in the audience? Your mom!
I've got a headache, got a headache, it's a migraine!
I've got gum on my shoe, gum on my shoe, gum on my shoe.
My nails are wet, my nails are wet, my nails are wet, whhhft!
I've got a pain in my side, pain in my side, it's appendicitis!
(bow)

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Revolutionary succulence

Thirteen lucky minutes after Rachel Brice started her Tribal Fest workshop on Fundamentals of Isolations in the Upper Body this morning, I got a text message from my wife, one I was hoping for with all my heart: "Will you marry me? We won!!! I love you more than I've been waiting for this moment."

Today, California's Supreme Court finally lifted the ban on same-sex marriage www.sfgate.com/cgi-bin/article.cgi It is only right that this happen her... read more
Thu, May 15, 2008 - 4:21 PM permalink - 46 comments
 
"Expect to have hope rekindled. Expect your prayers to be answered in wondrous ways. The dry seasons in life do not last. The spring rains will come again." ~ Sarah Ban Breathnach

Just in case you weren't sure, you are completely surrounded by miracles and blessings right this very moment!

Cutest fur babies in the world: www.spaydayusa.org/winners08.shtml

Happy Spring Equinox!

Happy Full Moon!

Happy Friday!
Fri, March 21, 2008 - 2:57 PM permalink - 3 comments
 
"Protesting is not complaining, nor is it sending out negative messages. Pro means 'for,' 'in favor of.' Test means 'to speak,' as in testify and testimony. So, protest actually means 'to speak for.' Protest is a completely positive endeavor.

"The media likes to portray peace, environment, and human and animal rights protesters as a fringe element of whining malcontents teetering on the margins of proper society. The truth is that those who step forward to speak their mind are happier and... read more
Thu, March 13, 2008 - 2:02 AM permalink - 6 comments
 
When I dare to be powerful - to use my strength in the service of my vision, then it becomes less and less important whether I am afraid.

Our visions begin with our desires.

When we speak we are afraid our words will not be heard or welcomed. But when we are silent, we are still afraid. So it is better to speak.

Your silence will not protect you.

I have come to believe over and over again that what is most important to me must be spoken, made verbal and shared, even at the risk... read more
Mon, February 18, 2008 - 2:13 PM permalink - 3 comments
 
"Love doesn't just sit there, like a stone, it has to be made, like bread; re-made all the time, made new." ~ Ursula K. LeGuin

I just fell in love all over again this week, while I watched my wife hand our dinner leftovers to two homeless men behind Rite Aid. She's just so kind and fearless, she had a genuine smile for them, respectfully asked if they would like some dinner, and then shook their hands with real eye contact while she found out that their names were Mark and Paul, and introd... read more
Thu, February 14, 2008 - 1:47 AM permalink - 13 comments
 
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Incriminating evidence

Re: melting.... (in !BlackSheep, Tribal Fest, Maui Intensive) I only came back to my air conditioned hotel room for a minute this afternoon, and then I couldn't leave... yikes I just don't do well in this kind of heat.

Where's the ice cream man?
discussion post on Fri, May 16, 2008 - 12:12 AM
Re: Already at Tribal Fest (in **Melodia Designs**) Did you say hi to me in Rachel's workshop today, Eve?

It was so crazy hot, I think I still owe you a hug!
discussion post on Thu, May 15, 2008 - 5:28 PM
Re: Already at Tribal Fest (in **Melodia Designs**) Did you say hi to me in Rachel's workshop today?

It was so crazy hot, I think I still owe you a hug!
discussion post on Thu, May 15, 2008 - 5:25 PM
Re: Already at Tribal Fest (in **Melodia Designs**) Oooh, I ran off to escape the 95-degree heat for the afternoon.

Have to put my face back on and stop blogging and get back out there...
discussion post on Thu, May 15, 2008 - 5:24 PM
So... (in ..::~*Medina Maitreya*~::..) Do you have time to outfit two brides, possibly by mid-June?

; D

people.tribe.net/bonniemar...047c2ba471
discussion post on Thu, May 15, 2008 - 4:58 PM
Thank you, beautiful Rachel! (in Rachel Brice) Thanks for announcing my brand sparkly new right to marry in your workshop today, gorgeous.

I love you *so* very much that it even made you cry a little when I told you.

Smooshy hugs! Ohmigoodness! Ohmigoodness!

people.tribe.net/bo... read more
discussion post on Thu, May 15, 2008 - 4:56 PM
Re: rosehips at tribal fest! (in rosehips) You should have seen how many hot women helped wrangle Rose's rack into place today.

; D
discussion post on Thu, May 15, 2008 - 4:51 PM
Psst! Laura, will you marry me? (in Creepy Crazy Cult) people.tribe.net/bonniemar...047c2ba471
discussion post on Thu, May 15, 2008 - 4:48 PM
Our dream come true! (in Bonnie and Laura's Fan Club) people.tribe.net/bonniemar...047c2ba471
discussion post on Thu, May 15, 2008 - 4:46 PM
History at TF8 (in !BlackSheep, Tribal Fest, Maui Intensive) During the Rachel Brice workshop!

people.tribe.net/bonniemar...047c2ba471
discussion post on Thu, May 15, 2008 - 4:46 PM
Re: Coffee? (in !BlackSheep, Tribal Fest, Maui Intensive) Laura is flying up tomorrow!

I can't wait!

; D
discussion post on Thu, May 15, 2008 - 4:44 PM
Re: :-) :-) :-) (in The Foul, Drunk & Hostile Bellydancer) That's using your noodle, Noodle!

; D
discussion post on Thu, May 15, 2008 - 12:59 AM
Re: Bald: Beautiful or Not (in The Foul, Drunk & Hostile Bellydancer) The creepy fucking disgusting violent evil abusive bastard who molested me for six years looked at my pubes starting to grow in when I was twelve, told me how repulsive I had become, and finally ended the constant psychological and sexual torture.... read more
discussion post on Thu, May 15, 2008 - 12:54 AM
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