Having worked in the adult industry for seven years I've become very aware of the gaze of men. I've become very aware of men hitting on me and the fact that people treat me differently if they find me attractive. It's gotten to a point where I am suspicious of men, and that I do my best to ignore them. At the office I'm supposed to be helpful and informative, but I don't want to help men or be nice to them. Yesterday there was a guy in the office who needed a lot of help and kept asking fro i... read more

TNG Whippersnappers Munch 4/30
*** the SF TNG Munch ***
on Wednesday, April 30 at the Bill's Kitchen, SF

What is it: a place for the younger generation of BDSM kinksters to get-together, meet, and talk over dinner and drinks. (Ages 18-35) This is a safe space to meet other young kinky people without the creepy old guy factor.

To get an idea of the people that show up, check out the TNG Tribe at whippersnappers.tribe.net/

When: Wednesday, April 30, 2008 at 8:00pm and the last Wednes... read more

Just got back home. Vincent wanted to get out, and I wasn't opposed to going out to a club, so he picked out The Pleasure Principle at Catalyst Cocktails. Except that it isn't actually a club night so much as a few DJs in the back of a bar. It's a nice bar, with tasty drinks. And by tasty I mean YUM rather than just being strong. However the "dancefloor" holds exactly four people dancing and two standing around talking, and the music was B-sides of all the 80's synthpop you don't remember. Th... read more