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Kathy

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joined on 04/27/05
last updated 04/21/07
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May 8, 2007
Mrs. Honey, Sweetie Pumpkin, Darlinga, Dearest Wife,

Thanks for the memories, the good times, the good loving, the support, the challenges.

Thanks for the day after day, week after week, month after month, year after year. The endless unfolding without end of the greatest adventure in cocreation ever!

Thanks for being my better half, the voice of reason, the grounding anchor I need to keep me safe as I learn to fly. Thanks for letting me be the same for you.

Thanks for choosing me. As Walden was so fond of pointing out, you could have had a richer, smarter, better looking guy. Good thing we had some issues around our past life to work out!

Thanks for working those issues out with me, for refusing to give up, for being strong when you need to and yielding when you need to. For keeping me honest and helping me keep it real.
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May 3, 2007
Kathy is easily one of the most exciting things in human form that has happened to me in years. A real live girl friend! Oh my god! In one short year the frustration of not doing all the stuff we have talked about is only matched by the excitement and anticipation of actually getting around to doing this stuff. We can - holy shit I can hardly list all the stuff without frothing at the mouth - sewing and movie dates and tea gardens and walks and swimming and girls nights and more movies and recipes and talking..........

And talking and more fucking talking I can talk to Kathy till my voice goes hoarse. Then call her up the next day and talk some more. Where will it end? What is all this? What if. It is only just fun? How much fun can I take?????

Kathy is organized and intuitive and loving and compassionate and calls me on my shit like so few people do and feeds me treats and has introduced 'girl date' into my lexicon and plays with my kid and who is that rarest of beings - someone who can stand tall in the world of adults and still hasn't forgotten how to play.

Happy anniversary sister!
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I can't quite recall how the idea began. I think it started when several of the Kiwiburn ExCom members started talking about their upcoming trip to the playa for Burning Man, and someone said, 'Hey, we should have a We're Not Going To Burning Man' party for those of us left behind.

What’s the counter to Burning Man you ask? Why, Melting Man, of course!

The idea was to find a snowy paddock up in the mountains, throw a party, build a snowman, and then burn it. Apparently there are videos on YouTube demonstrating how this can be done.

Jonathan booked a DJ gig in Christchurch for the weekend of Aug 25th which coincided with the opening of the Burning Man festival in Nevada. Several of the Wellingtonians decided to make a winter holiday of it and booked their tickets down to the South Island. Cass and Jeremy came in from Oz.

First stop: Kathy & Bruce's International Burner Hostel where we comfortably accommodated our seven guests. We had a small house party before going out to listen to Jonathan dj at Nitrate. Dressed in our shiniest finest, we got down in the living room to some of JetPilot's groovey tunes, spinning the hula hoops and enjoying some cocktails.

We booked ourselves into the Flock Hill Station Lodge & Backpackers which is located about 100 km (an hour+ drive) from Christchurch up near Arthur's Pass. We loaded up the van and cars with a complete sound system, car port, hula hoops, and snow gear and the crew headed up to the mountains on Sunday and Monday.

The lodge & backpackers is located on a working farming station of several thousand acres, farming mainly sheep and some cattle and deer. The backpackers & lodge is situated on approx two acres. Usually during this time of year, the valleys are covered in snow. However, it’s been a dry season, and while some of the ski fields were open for operation, the lower parts of the mountains and the valleys were not under snow. Jase, the affable manager at the backpackers agreed to let us have our party up on The Knoll, located on the property and about a 10 minute walk beyond the lodge. We’d be able to play as loud and for as long as we’d like.

We borrowed 'Susie', the 4WD vehicle belonging to the Station and loaded up all the gear and drove up to the site and set up the car port and DJ gear. The Knoll was perfect. Gorgeous, stunning views of the surrounding valleys and an alpine lake. Those that went skiing that day managed to abscond with two precious large bags of snow which we used to build our melting man!


The party kicked off around 9 pm with the twelve of us (Jodi, Wendy, Joel, Jonathan, Jez, Andrea, Tara, Bruno, Cass, Jeremy, Bruce, & myself). We stopped by the backpackers and invited them all; eight or ten showed up.

We illuminated our man, decorated him in some shiny, turned on the black light, and danced the hours away. The Green Fairy represented with some absinthe; Wendy brought the most excellent PSI hoop which razzled and dazzled; DJ's Helix and Jet Pilot delighted us all. The full moon was resplendent and cast a beautiful glow onto the Knoll; the stars shone brightly. We didn't feel the chill. We were excited, we were having a party, we were not at burning man!

Sadly, but for safety reasons, we were not allowed to light our man on fire. But that was okay, for we allowed the natural elements to melt him away. He was headless by the next morn!

We had a relatively quiet next day with some folks skiing/boarding and some folks relaxing at the cabin. We chilled and played games, cooked yummy food and imbibed wine and beer.

We parted on Wednesday. Cass & Jeremy and Andrea & Jez were carrying on to the West Coast. The remaining five of us embarked on a several hour hike through the Station to view the Broken River falls. The signage to the falls was not the best and we ended up bushwhacking our way through some thickets. Through the fields, past the stock, and up the valley, we arrived at the falls. A short rest for snacks and photo taking and then we made our way back to the lodge and then drove home to Christchurch where we ended the trip with a fine meal at His Lordships Café & Bar.

Melting Man – the ‘we’re not going to burning man’ party of the southern hemisphere. Yeah, this could be the start of a new tradition. Thanks everyone for your vision and willingness to make this happen. It was loads of fun. Same time next year?

More photos can be found here on my blog:
www.kathysgetaways.com/416/de...n_2007/

Cheers!



Sat, September 1, 2007 - 5:29 PM permalink - 4 comments
 
I just put this up on the Kiwiburn Tribe, but there are a few of you burners who aren't on *gasp* Kiwiburn, so maybe you'll get to see it here instead.

Happy reading.

www.kathysgetaways.com/326/wa...ng2007/
Thu, May 3, 2007 - 3:05 AM permalink - 0 comments
 
And I'm not talking 'bout belly buttons either.

I'm talking about personality temperament.

I'm curious.

www.kathysgetaways.com/308/ha...ersion/
Fri, April 13, 2007 - 12:20 AM permalink - 0 comments
 
Lately I''ve really been feeling like I'm treading the hamster wheel. How can that be?

Read more about what I've been up to here:

www.kathysgetaways.com/307/hamsterwheel/
Thu, April 12, 2007 - 11:56 PM permalink - 1 comment
 
My reflections on Kiwiburn can be found here:

www.kathysgetaways.com/212/kiwiburn07/
Sat, February 17, 2007 - 3:10 PM permalink - 5 comments
 
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about me
A little introverted, a little extroverted, definitely a full-fledged Libra. Looking for peace & serenity and to surround myself with interesting, eclectic people. Life is to be lived and to be embraced. I'm doing the best I can.

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