joined on 03/26/07
last updated 02/29/08
September 22, 2007
Rio is the kindest most generous person I have ever known! I would totally trust my life to this fabulous woman, in fact I have. She has been my knight in shining armor more than once!
She's funny, adventurous, and gorgeous!
She's the queen of finding parking in the hardest places (you should hear her pray to Asphalta, the parking goddess.)
I adore Rio and I would have never had so many adventures in the bay area if it weren't for this woman!
Kinnari
"Great short haircuts for women"
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about me
I'm busy and have a lot of friends, but will make room for more. Love to dance, almost any kind of music. Like all humans, I'm a submissive to my cat. I'm adventurous, compassionate, playful, loyal, love to laugh, and I'm a big tease. I love the excitement of life! I'm dating around, new to the kink scene, a switch looking for more play partners. Esp. into bondage, sex and sensation play, but my motto is "I'll try anything once." (Hmm, I do have some limits, though.)
Another milestone, my first 100 friends.
Actually, I'm not into numbers, especially when it comes to friends. When I first signed on to Tribe I wanted to have at least a few, so I wouldn't look like a stalker/loser/alt/weirdo. Then I wanted to mark down the people I knew in real life. Then I added people as I got to know them in the scene. Now I generally only friend people I have some connection to, or community members I've run into several times at events. I turn down people I don't kno...
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Tue, May 20, 2008 - 11:19 AM
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Having gotten out of the habit of writing this blog, I must re-train myself to do it more frequently. It's not that I'm not doing anything - I'm busy as ever - I'm just not writing about it as much.
Work continues to be extra busy, although I've put some limits on what I do so it isn't quite as crazy. I've gotten really involved in community stuff - volunteering for the Exiles [ www.theexiles.org/home.html], working on the Venus Playground women's area for Folsom [http://folsomstreet...
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Tue, May 13, 2008 - 5:38 PM
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I'm coming out of my winter shell now that Spring is creeping in. And I *have* been playing, just not as publicly as before. Plus my work life has become absolutely insane (temporarily), so I haven't been on Tribe as much.
I spoke in an earlier blog about easy play pals who come - and go - quickly, and people reccommended working on establishing ongoing involvements, which I've been doing. And, much as I love the Citadel, it's a tough place to consistently meet women. So I've gotten more i...
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Thu, February 28, 2008 - 9:30 PM
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Yeah, I'm still around, still seeing people, still doing some playing. I'm just not very enthusiastic about anything right now. Like a lot of people, I have a harder time in the winter, with the lack of light. The weather's not so great, so I can't do as many outdoors-y things. And work is providing more than its share of stress right now. I just didn't want you-all to think I've dropped off the map.
I had a great time at the Exiles program last Friday - it was on Ass Play, and like all of...
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Mon, January 21, 2008 - 10:13 AM
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To finish out 2007, I had three play dates on the last three days of the year. Whoopie!
On Saturday my trans male friend, who's moved out of town, returned for a visit. So far, he's the only man I've let top me (a situation I'm unlikely to change, for now). We'd planned to go to the Citadel, but he was feeling a bit under the weather, so we hung out with his roommate and his wife and checked out their Xmas gifts. His wife had given him a freestanding sling for a present - wow - and when he...
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Wed, January 2, 2008 - 10:59 AM
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Avoiding danger is no safer in the long run than outright exposure. The fearful are caught as often as the bold. - Helen Keller
You will do foolish things, but do them with enthusiasm. - Colette
It spite of illness, in spite even of the archenemy sorrow, one can remain alive long past the usual date of disintegration if one is unafraid of change, insatiable in intellectual curiosity, interested in big things, and happy in a small way. – Edith Wharton
You gain strength, courage and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face. You are able to say to yourself "I lived through this horror. I can take the next thing that comes along." You must do the thing you think you cannot do. – Eleanor Roosevelt
On March 1st, 2006, in Annapolis, MD, Jamie Raskin, Professor of Law at American University, testified at a hearing on a proposed Constitutional Amendment to prohibit gay marriage. At the end of his testimony, Republican Senator Nancy Jacobs said: "Mr. Raskin, my Bible says marriage is only between a man and a woman. What do you have to say about that?" Raskin replied: "Senator, when you took your oath of office, you placed your hand on the Bible and swore to uphold the Constitution. You did not place your hand on the Constitution and swear to uphold the Bible."
Far better is it to dare mighty things, to win glorious triumphs, even though checkered by failure... than to rank with those poor spirits who neither enjoy nor suffer much, because they live in a gray twilight that knows not victory nor defeat. - Teddy Roosevelt
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Re: Yet another newbie...
(in New to BDSM (Uncensored))
lkg, how can one access the archives, and other older material?
Thanks,
Rio
discussion post on Fri, July 25, 2008 - 4:48 PM
Re: Anyone here going to Dore Alley Fair?
(in BDSM Women Only)
I'll definitely be there.
I agree that the show-off wankers are tiresome, and after a while the testosterone overload and crowdedness get to me, but earlier on it's not so bad, and I *do* run into friends there.
I appreciate the opportunity...
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discussion post on Fri, July 25, 2008 - 10:34 AM
Kink-E-Zine Special LGBT Pride Month edition
( community » other ) Kink-e-zine honors National Pride Month with a special edition, packed w...
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listing posted Sun, June 8, 2008 - 7:11 PM
100 Friends
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Another milestone, my first 100 friends.
Actually, I'm not into numbers, especially when it comes to friends. When I first signed on to Tribe I wanted to have at least a few, so I wouldn't look like a stalker/loser/alt/weirdo. Then I wanted to ...
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Update
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Having gotten out of the habit of writing this blog, I must re-train myself to do it more frequently. It's not that I'm not doing anything - I'm busy as ever - I'm just not writing about it as much.
Work continues to be extra busy, although I'v...
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