~Blogrottica~
Mix it up~Slow it down
Wed, March 22, 2006 - 8:37 AM
when doing pretty much ANYTHING sexual erotic or sensual with someone
MIX UP your rythym.... lickit fast then lick it slow... teaseit close...tease it far
Does not matter if you are talking about kissing, oral sex, intercourse of any kind
spanking flogging whatever....
Mix it up....and...Slow it down
One thing that the captain REALLY loves to do is just hold his tongue against the clit of his lover.
Just hold it there... feeling the tremble in the place where your flesh becomes her flesh...where the energy of your fifth chakra, expressing your heart, flows into the center of her pleasure universe...
Often when people are going down on a goddess they feel as if they HAVE to do something continually.
Sometimes doing NOTHING can be the hottest thing of all...
While it is possible and very fun, sometimes to just start ratcheting things up from ground zero in a sharp upward curve towards a climax...the best journies usually have some peaks and waves within them... rise up and then coast back down...throttle yourself into a little whipsnap of the tongue and then settle down into the slowest slowest lick you can bring your tongue to make... and I mean SLLLLOOOOOWWWWW
Which brings me to a special note in this blog which I am directing at the boyz and men of tribe...
YOU ESPECIALLY need to slow it down mon!...I know that many of you are already aware of this but in the event that some of you are still stuck in that "wiggle it over an over and over til she either tells you to stop or cums" style hearken to what el capitan is sharing with you here...
SLOW THAT SHIT DOWN---
YOUR lover(s) might like it hot and fast...they might really want to fuck hard or be fucked hard.. but mixing it up so that there is that slooooooooow delicious blending of energies .. is really ... really devine...
Last tip for the day.. FOCUS your ENERGY from your HEART so that if FLOWS through your tongue (fingers, cock, dildo etc.)
into the pleasure center of your lover(s)...
~Reporting to you live from the front lines of the "war for pleasure"~
Captain Erotica
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Wed, March 22, 2006 - 8:56 AM
THIS WAS AN IMPORTANT PUBLIC SERVICE ANNOUNCEMENT
In the movie "Out of Africa"... I remember when Robert Redford was inside Meryl Streep, quietly, and he said, "Don't move..."
She said, "I want to move." "Don't move" he said again. The women in the audience went "Aaaaaaaaaahhhhh..." |
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Wed, March 22, 2006 - 9:48 AM
SPEAKING OF EROTIC HEROSIM. . .
You're friends and devoted followers have been waiting to hear the results of your Erotic Super Friends contest.
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Wed, March 22, 2006 - 9:55 AM
Thank you for that insightful commentary from the frontlines. You are indeed a scholar and a lover. :)
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Wed, March 22, 2006 - 10:17 AM
Ohhhhh Yeahhhh!! and using muscle control only begin to move ever ever so slowly.... and repeat the slow, stop, slow several times....
makes me tingly from head to toe..... Thanks again Capt'n Sir for reminding us to take time for pleasure and not be in such a rush to the finish.... ....B |
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Wed, March 22, 2006 - 10:28 AM
RE: Public service announcement
I have not seen this movie, but I know what Meryl was talking about.
In this case, I need to slow down, especially when I SO want to move. |
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Wed, March 22, 2006 - 11:59 AM
slower please
Last week my MASTER and I were making love and he varied his speed and slowed it way down to the point where I was trambling below him having entire body orgasms.... Then when he staarted to lick again I squirted from my clit... This was a first for me but I can assure you that it was all his doing and the rythem was perfect and everything clicked.... I felt his passion and energy in me and he felt mine and together we were experiencing one of the most amazing things that has happened to us both.....
Thank you for the reminder Captain..... |
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Wed, March 22, 2006 - 2:51 PM
WELL SAID!
I'm impressed.
hey capt. did you read my book? you know I wrote a book on this stuff. kidding . But I / We should. You just spoke of the method I have crafted over the last 12 years. The method of the ever twisting rhythm stick. I love you more and more each day. haha. I love to eat pussy. Its one of my favorite places. I take eating pussy as seriously as eating psychedelics or living for that matter. SLOOOOOOWWW down guys. Please. For the reputation of all mankind slow it down. Too many woman have complaints of the speed demon who thinks he/she is rocking worlds. There is a flow though. one that brings you to speed and back to the subtle. if speed is necessary its because its part of that flow. Constant speed becomes numbing and gives a underlying psychological energy wave that influences the feminine mind to get turned off. The subtext of too much speed is subconsciously energized as " i just want this to be done and over ". I know that you think youre rocking minds into the fifth dimension but thats your male side. Fuck like a wild man. haha. She is not a man when it comes to the clit. holding the tounge on the clit is an electric sensrory overload that leaves the " speed of a tongue lashing" in its wake. holding the tongue on the clit is the divine connection. You can both literally move into another dimension. This is how you know if you're going slow enough. Imagine..no Understand that each nerve needs attention. Each nerve wants to be rolled over and each nerve wants to be the star of the show. When you think that you are giving each one that rock star attention, drop the speed a nother 2 notches. Go even slower. If feels so good that they have no idea what you are doing down there. Its simply the ultimate. This is the ground basis of building energy for the clitoral orgasmic pool. You are literally creating a pool of base energy that is used on the sweet road to the big O. I mean the BIG O. You have to start building. Build her up. She moves in waves. You move in particles. Raise and lower you vibration in tune with her waves. Pour love into her through your tongue. Love her and the chakras will light up her back in every moment. You want to know the real secret now? Licking a clit and vagina to orgasm is like this. The is the model for speed. Its like climbing a ladder. You take 3 steps up and 2 steps back. Then 3 steps up and then 2 back. Then 4 up and 1 back. The 2 forward and 6 back. Then 3 forward and 1 back. Continue this in whatever pattern seems to be working. You will always get to the top of the ladder. This is a model for patience, love and speed control. You KNOW when she is loosing her mind. This is model for slowing down and then rising to meet her needs. Be an empath. Create your own model if you want. You are a ride at Disney Land and your tongue is the box car. No matter what you do fill her with love. If its not full of love then your wasting precious moments in life having mediocre sex. When you are loving you aren't trying to get anywhere. Every moment is perfect, divine and extremely HOT HOT HOT. She will feel this. oh haha but never forget the power of the fluid flicker of the tongue master. Speed has its place and is arguably one of the more powerful things in the known universe. Build her up through slowness so you can use that speed. Then jump back to the slow and watch her swell to bursting. the cats out of the bag. ...... i must be really horney lately. One love, Spirit monkey [ spirit monkey is a pussy lover extraordinare with a Ph D in clitoral satisfaction and intentional feminine servatude. If you would like to schedule a session with a true master you can reach him at www.tribe.net/spiritmonkey. Spirit monkey also is a documentary and experimental film maker. which of course adds to your desire to fuck him. } haha that was good. one love yall i love you ! |
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Wed, March 22, 2006 - 3:31 PM
damn you!
I read this post this morning and its ALL I have been able to think about all day! arrrrrrgggggggghhhhh! Distracting! (in the best possible way of course!)
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Wed, March 22, 2006 - 4:55 PM
In the words of the Rev. Horton Heat ~
made up my mind a long time ago
Ain't no reason not to take it slow It took a long time but I learned what they like Once you've learned my lesson it's like ridin' a bike Slow, Slow, learn my lesson Slow, Slow I'm the doctor of squeeze and the wizard of slide Every which way and side to side It ain't complicated if you follow the rules Here's what we'll be learnin' at our lovin' school Slow, Slow, learn my lesson Slow, Slow, learn my lesson of love When it seems sometime like it's goin' nowhere I just kiss you real soft and you're almost there Drivin' real slow gets you home pretty fast Keep a cool head gonna make it last Slow, Slow, learn my lesson Slow, Slow, learn my lesson of love Slow |
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Wed, March 22, 2006 - 8:47 PM
slow hand
As the midnight moon, was drifting threw
The lazy sway of the trees, I saw the look in your eye, looking into the night Not seeing want you wanted too see Darling don't say a word, I've already heard, What your body is saying to mine, You take a fast move, you a slow groove, on your mind You want a man with a slow, you want a lover with an easy touch You want somebody who can spend some time Not comin' or going in an heated rush Baby, believe me, I understand, when it comes to love You want a slow hand (Solo) Moon shadowed ground, with no one around and the blanket of stars in our eyes A wind drifted tree, like two losted sleeves On the crazy wind of the night Darling, don't say a word I've already heard What your body is saying to mine If you want it all night you know it's allright I have got time You've got a man with a slow hand You got a lover with an easy touch You've got somebody who can spend sometime Not come and go in a heated rush Baby, believe me I understand that when it come to love You want a slow hand You want a lover with a easy touch You got somebody who would spend some time, with a Baby Not to come and go in a heated rush Conway Twitty RIP |
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Wed, March 22, 2006 - 11:57 PM
Are y'all *trying* to kill me here? God, this is getting a little toasty. Mean people.
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Unsu...
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Thu, March 23, 2006 - 1:16 PM
One thing that the captain REALLY loves to do....
=========== All I can think of is Meg Ryan playing "Sally" and screaming her 'fake' "YES!!!" but dang, mine are real for this one!! Yeah, thanks Captain. I'm throbbing now... |