Aloha! Words by Chuck

I Love You......

   Sun, March 16, 2008 - 2:22 PM
Kajira and I say "I Love You" a lot, when the mood strikes us, one of us can be doing the dishes, and yell upstaire to the other "I LOVE YOUUUUUUUUU"....

My parents didn't say it, al least I don't remember hearing it.

Does it mean less when you say it more? Do you take it for granted when you hear it. Does it make your heart flutter less?

We just talked about it, we don't think so, maybe sometimes we take it for granted, but it still means a lot and makes us both fell "warm and fuzzy" when the other says it.

We say it to Noelle (our daughter) when we get done talking on the phone, because we do mean it and we miss her.

Do actions speak louder than words? In this case, no.

Don't think because you do stuff for the other that they should "know" that you love them. I hear this from time to time,,, "they should know that I love them, I mean, look what I do for them".....

You need to tell them, in this case, words speak louder than action......

Actions do count and you need to do that also, show them, but you still have to tell them.

Just my thoughts......

painting by Noelle, it's title "Woman Power",,,



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Sun, March 16, 2008 - 3:00 PM
I LOVE ....
yes it's a conversation that goes round and round...

but why i had to post was..
OHmi goodness gracious...

I LOVE THAT PAINTING ~!
simply amazing.. and it speaks...
thanx Chuck for sharing..

and thank YOU Noelle for creating a strong beautiful visual statement.






Sun, March 16, 2008 - 3:59 PM
I think it's great that you say it alot. Most people know when they hear the phrase whether it's genuine. I don't think it could be used to much, esp when you mean it. Kudos. (and now I'm feeling all warm and fuzzy.....)
Sun, March 16, 2008 - 10:29 PM
You're completely right. Chuck. Love and trust are the basis of a great marriage, and you two got the goods, fer sure!
Tue, March 18, 2008 - 8:00 AM
I love you's
My husband and I will celebrate our 17th year of marriage this June and we say I Love You a lot as well. We still get butterflies when we see each other unexpectedly and are still very much in love with each other. So, I think it is GREAT. Keep it up. You are an awesome example to all those marriages that do not feel that spark or it is deminishing. Thanks for sharing. :)
Thu, March 20, 2008 - 8:07 PM
My Dad always says "The more you say "I love you", and mean it, the bigger it's wings grow, and the further it can fly when you are apart."

:)
Thu, March 20, 2008 - 11:10 PM
Love you
It can never be said too much. Nor can it lose it's depth. If anything it makes those words fuller & richer & heavier with the emotion that they hold. My husband & I breath those words to each other many times in a day. In emails, passing in the hall, sitting together or across the house. Roger & I will celebrate 36 years of marriage this year, I think those three words hold more love in them with each passing day. So give them freely, lovingly, playfully, wistfully, but always, always, give them. There is no greater gift to give than your love.