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I hope that I didn't ruin things today!

   Tue, October 4, 2005 - 10:09 PM
I opened my big fat mouth today to the woman that I care about today. I used the L word!!!!! She took it better than I had thought, but Not as well as I had hoped. When will I learn? I'm being more honest with her than I've ever been with anyone in my life, and I'm wondering if I need to temper this with a little common sense?



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Tue, October 4, 2005 - 11:53 PM
I'm sure she received it better than you thought
Maybe she's just wary of moving too fast? Maybe she is more affectionate on a superficial level, and cautious on a personal front?

I don't know, I'm just saying.
Wed, October 5, 2005 - 12:32 AM
Be honest, but take it SLOW. The 'L' word will come naturally to her when the timing is right for her. As long as you are true to yourself, there is nothing more that can be asked.
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Wed, October 5, 2005 - 7:36 AM
Love is not common sense, it is an emotion. You may be much more comfortable if you are not in it for outcome. Enjoy the feeling that the relationship sparks in you. Savor it. Try not to project it onto your partner for the sake of affirmation, but instead allow them to bask in the beauty of the emotion without the stress of expectation.

Attraction rather than promotion.