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I am monogamous by nature and preference but I am in school and exploring fatherhood with my 17 year old son who I have been estranged from basically since he was one and so at the moment I am only seeking a stable, drama free casual partner .

Like many, I have been in and out of the scene for years. My most impressive scene achievements mean little to me, I have started groups that still exist and owned public play spaces. What I most treasure are the forces that have driven me to grow and change, to become a vastly better person. To me, that is what I most treasure about being in the "scene" whatever exactly that is anyway.

I am a dyed in the wool pervert and dedicated Daddy. While I love S&M, BDSM, Sexual Magic, or whatever is the cool hip name this week, it is something that enhances my life rather than encompasses it.

While I adore every part of a woman's body and believe none of it should be wasted or ignored, my favorite playground is a woman's mind. If I touch only one part of her, THAT is what turns me on the most, arriving someplace ahead of her so that she suddenly realize she isn’t in control. That I led her here.

Of course just yanking someone to their knees does have its place and hell, sometimes I even ask first. I am a dominant, it IS what motivates me, and control is what I crave. Not in the small petty way but in the deep soul filling way that the sort of woman I desire simply needs.