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I am a talented and creative dominant who is well known and respected in my local community. Years ago I spent a lot of time in leadership roles in the scene but currently my focus is inward. I am in school and making some major life choices, one of which is embarking on an entirely new career.


I am by nature, fairly monogamous, and I seek a long term committed relationship as my ultimate goal. I have been blessed with some amazing woman in my life and together we created rewarding and joyful long term D/s relationships. I like powerful strong women who are independent and don’t need me to fix their life but want to work with me to create a relationship that is greater than the sum of each of us alone. As I said, I love powerful woman, my last two relationships were with dominant women who chose to submit to me. Both were wonderful women. We shared some amazing times together but distance in both cases prevented us from going where we both wanted and needed them to go and so I am here...looking for someone I can hold on a cold night, or surprise in the morning.

I am currently exploring teaching on BDSM topics, I have long taught woodworking in various venues up and down Northern California. I am a bit of an odd duck, I am very involved in the scene on some levels and a private person at the same time. There is something though about playing in public surrounded by all that energy that I do love. I believe in giving back to the community that has so richly rewarded and informed my life and I think much of my involvement of the scene is driven by that desire. I am co-director of Masters and slaves Together, a D/s discussion group that is centered around creating strong mutually rewarding relationships.

I do very much have a life outside of kink and want you to have one as well. Balance in life is important. I am preparing at the moment to do some early spring camping in the Sierras. I am preparing to do a high country hike to climb the peaks around Kings Canyon. Never done anything like that and so it is going to be an adventure! I enjoy riding bikes as well and have long wanted to take up sailing but it just hasn’t happened yet. Perhaps I am waiting for you?

And who are you? I prefer women around my own age as we share a lot of experience but I have been with both older and younger woman and found joy in that. Speaking of joy, happiness is an important quality, finding joy in the simple things in life is important to me. I can enjoy the high life but again, balance for me means also enjoying a simple picnic overlooking the bay or a crystal clear alpine lake. I am attracted to women who just have that certain something, a beautiful smile can be intoxicating, dark hair can be exotic, shapely curves are exciting, but I have loved short women, large women, even dark and moody women. Bottom line is there has to be that certain something.

I look forward to hearing from you.