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Devlyn

joined on 11/03/05
last updated 11/06/08
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My Recent Activity

Civil Unions Available in NH on December 10th (blog entry) PORTSMOUTH, NH — Same-sex couples throughout the state will be able to obtain civil union licenses as of Dec. 10, to go into effect New Year's Day. Licenses will be available at all New Hampshire town and city halls for $45 per couple. The worksh... read more
blog entry posted Tue, November 27, 2007 - 5:56 PM permalink - 0 comments
The Most Wonderful Man - Says Goodbye (blog entry) Well as soon as I found out about my grandfathers condition (see last blog post) I decided to take a road trip to South Carolina (from New Hampshire) to see him. Both my father and brother wanted to go with me, so we made it a family adventure. ... read more
blog entry posted Mon, November 19, 2007 - 7:29 PM permalink - 0 comments
The Most Wonderful Man - Einar Carlson (blog entry) For those that know my grandfather, I think that we can all agree that he is without a doubt one of the most kind, honorable, and devoted men to ever walk the earth. When I was very young (elementary school) I would often stay with him and my gra... read more
blog entry posted Tue, November 13, 2007 - 7:47 AM permalink - 2 comments
I Completed My First Real Wedding!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (blog entry) OK, I have been a licensed Justice of the Peace in the state of New Hampshire for several years now. And as of July 2007 I am also a legally ordained minister.

The Justice of the Peace license allows me to perform marriages in New Hampshire (a... read more
blog entry posted Wed, October 17, 2007 - 9:55 PM permalink - 0 comments
News SCA Persona (blog entry) OK I have been in the SCA for nearly 3 years successfully without actually creating a Persona. At events I usually just used one of personas from the LARPs I have been playing for over 12 years (well developed characters). However, I never creat... read more
blog entry posted Sat, August 4, 2007 - 12:48 AM permalink - 0 comments
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Quotes that Describe Me

"Don't ask questions that you don't really want the answers to. Because I will answer them."

"Most people go through life trying to appear different. I have gone through life trying to appear normal."

"Man is least himself when he talks in his own person... Give him a mask and he'll tell you the truth. "

"Nothing makes one so vain as being told one is a sinner!"

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Me

Gender
Male
Age
33
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Breif Description:
My ancestry is good mix of Scottish and other nordic stock with a pure Sweedish grandfather thrown in to add some spice. This means that at 6 feet tall, I am the runt of my family. But it also means that I can run around all winter through the snow in short sleaves, sandals, and a kilt and never get cold.

I am also completely a cat person. They just make so much sense to me, usually more sense then people make. For a cat's reasoning is always understandable.

Relationships-
For several years I was part of a 4 to 5 person closed circuit polyamorous group. In the end we each had different destinies and most of us went our separate ways. Even through it all we are all still friends. We started as friends and ended as friends, as all relationships should be.

Before that I was part of several traditional relationships (MF) and a number of poly groups of three with various mixes in gender (MFF& MFM).

Currently I am very happily married, but we are always willing to entertain the idea of Poly partners if the right person(s) shows up. However, we are fundamentally Monogamous with-in our poly group. This means that neither my wife nor I will take an extra partner that our spouse isn't equally attracted to and knows. This also means that our new partner(s) have to be committed to us.

For us, we want a Polyamorous Family. Each one of us as equal partners, living together for mutual benefit. Every member has strengths and weaknesses that compliment each other member of the family and makes the whole much greater. This is our own take on the concept of that it takes a village to raise a child.

Sexuality-
I am a bisexually comfortable male. I have had sexual relations with both women and men. (Usually at the same time) As a general rule, I prefer women, but I am overwhelmingly picky in ether case. However, my life is not ruled by sexual stimuli. When I meet a man or a woman I do not view them sexually, I view them as a person. It is always the personality and how well our quirks compliment each other that wins me over.

Sex-
The number one rule is to respect my partner(s) and to never betray the trust that they have placed with me. Being trusted to be the Dominate is the greatest sign of respect a Submissive can show and it should never be taken lightly or abused.

Not Sex –
Being naked is not sex. Laying naked and holding someone you care about is not sex, it is better.

Religion-
I would never say that I am Pagan, but I do often enjoy their company. I also don’t consider myself an Atheist, because I do have a very firm set of beliefs in how the universe was created and works, my belief system just lacks any omnipotent beings. I also very strongly believe in the ethical treatment of people and animals. I have found that science and facts are less blinding then truths. Above all else I believe in ME.

Energy-
Everything and in this world and others are connected. There are strands that bind it all together. One only needs to know how to pluck the string.
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My Blog

PORTSMOUTH, NH — Same-sex couples throughout the state will be able to obtain civil union licenses as of Dec. 10, to go into effect New Year's Day. Licenses will be available at all New Hampshire town and city halls for $45 per couple. The worksheet is like a marriage license, except the words "bride" and "groom" are deleted.

"It's much the same process as marriage licenses," said Portsmouth City Clerk Kelli Barnaby. "Only it doesn't go into effect until Jan. 1."

That day will be a jo... read more
Tue, November 27, 2007 - 5:56 PM permalink - 0 comments
 
Well as soon as I found out about my grandfathers condition (see last blog post) I decided to take a road trip to South Carolina (from New Hampshire) to see him. Both my father and brother wanted to go with me, so we made it a family adventure. We drove all day Thursday and stayed with my aunt that night.

We arrived in Irmo SC around 7pm Friday. Got checked in to our hotel. Then visited my grandmother for a little while. My grandmother (98 years old) who has been sitting with my gra... read more
Mon, November 19, 2007 - 7:29 PM permalink - 0 comments
 
For those that know my grandfather, I think that we can all agree that he is without a doubt one of the most kind, honorable, and devoted men to ever walk the earth. When I was very young (elementary school) I would often stay with him and my grandmother after school. Grandmother would teach me to play the organ and chat with me. Grandpa would always be there too. He was always moving and forever had projects to complete. Never a man of many words, but a man of devotion and action. He d... read more
Tue, November 13, 2007 - 7:47 AM permalink - 2 comments
 
OK, I have been a licensed Justice of the Peace in the state of New Hampshire for several years now. And as of July 2007 I am also a legally ordained minister.

The Justice of the Peace license allows me to perform marriages in New Hampshire (as well as sign warrants and witness testimonies). Being an Ordained Minister allows me to perform marriages in most other states.

Over the past couple years I have presided over 8 marriages. All of which had been elopements, meaning that I just ... read more
Wed, October 17, 2007 - 9:55 PM permalink - 0 comments
 
OK I have been in the SCA for nearly 3 years successfully without actually creating a Persona. At events I usually just used one of personas from the LARPs I have been playing for over 12 years (well developed characters). However, I never created an origional persona for my activities in the SCA. Mainly because i was still feeling out how the structure worked.

Well Now that I plan to start working towards rank in the SCA, I feel the need to really explore a life style and a time period... read more
Sat, August 4, 2007 - 12:48 AM permalink - 0 comments
 
While I am not Wiccan I was very proud to see this artical in the New York Times.

April 24, 2007
Use of Wiccan Symbol on Veterans’ Headstones Is Approved
By NEELA BANERJEE
WASHINGTON, April 23 — To settle a lawsuit, the Department of Veterans Affairs has agreed to add the Wiccan pentacle to a list of approved religious symbols that it will engrave on veterans’ headstones.

The settlement, which was reached on Friday, was announced on Monday by Americans United for the Separation of C... read more
Tue, April 24, 2007 - 5:57 AM permalink - 0 comments
 
Presidential candidates have recently been asking the public for ways that the election process can be improved. This year I decided to answer them.

Attention Candidate,
If you want me to feel empowered to vote, then let me feel like my vote has meant something.

American's currently only have the right to vote for a person that various rich political groups have placed on a ballet. These candidates generally represent the ideology of the people of their political association, not n... read more
Sat, April 21, 2007 - 6:01 PM permalink - 1 comment
 
OK, I would like to deviate from normal conversation for a moment to ask a mechanical question to those that have more mechanical sense then I do.

OK I just bought a used bike in a private sale. The Bike is a 1983 Yamaha XJ900 Secca. Before I bought it I took it out for a long test drive and didn’t encounter any problems other then the bike took slightly longer then usual to start.

After buying the bike (about 2 weeks ago) I had it trucked over to a friend’s garage in Lawrence MA where... read more
Thu, April 19, 2007 - 11:39 PM permalink - 2 comments
 
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