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Domina Lilith

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SCCLA Presents...Leather Weekend, 2007 (events » community) Friday, November 2, 2007 - 12:00 PM The Santa Clara County Leather Association Leather Weekend
is our annual showcase event.
This year we proudly present " Tools of the Trade"

Friday Nov 2
* Meet & Greet at Renegades Bar 9pm - 1 am
- "Gear up for the Weekend" Contest
- Bootblack
- Demos
- Cigars
You must be 21 to attend
No Cover

Saturday Nov 3rd at Edges Dungeon
You must be 18 to attend
* Community Fair Noon - 5 pm
- Classes/Seminars
- Vendors
- Demos
- Silent Auctions
* Dinner 5 - 6:30pm
* Fantasy Show 7 - 8:30pm
* Play Party 9:15pm - 1am

Sunday Nov 4th @ Cardinal Coffee Shop (meet in the bar)
* Leather Brunch Noon-2:00pm
You must be 21 to attend
No Host

Admission and Ticket Information: www.sccleather.org/w/2007LWTickets

Weekend Package includes: Admission to Community Fair, Dinner, Show
and Play Party
* Advance Weekend Packages are available at Frantix
for $45 until 11:59pm Friday Nov. 2, 2007
www.frantix.net/frantix-s/...SCCLA07.cgi
* Weekend Packages will ONLY be available at the door on Saturday Nov 3rd for
SCCLA /Edges Members and their guests.

* Advance Play Party Tickets are available at Frantix for
$20 until 11:59pm Friday Nov. 2, 2007
www.frantix.net/frantix-s/...SCCLA07.cgi
* Play Party Tickets will ONLY be available at the door on Saturday
Nov 3rd for
SCCLA/Edges Members and their guests.
* Those wishing to attend just the play party who are not members of SCCLA
or Edges MUST purchase advance tickets.

Please visit www.sccleather.org/w/LeatherWeekend for details

Please feel free to forward on to appropriate lists.
Iron Dom Contest (events » community) Saturday, November 24, 2007 - 2:00 PM You're going to be tired of turkey leftovers, so come out, eat Domina's justly famous sloppy joes and watch some of the bay area's dominants make turkeys out of themselves!!

The premise is that a top is washed ashore on a desert island, with whatever flotsam and jetsam floats in with him. After assuring his basic comforts, he spends his time making toys and watching the horizon for rescue. Finally, one day, another person washes ashore and they are a bottom!!!! All those toys will finally find a use.

Now here is how it really works, for those of you who have managed to avoid it until now. The contestants get a bag of items put together by "The Frugal Domme" and have two hours (from 2-4PM) to make functional toys out of them. THEN they draw for bottoms. They can end up with a bottom of any gender or orientation. It's all in the luck of the draw.

After that, they have to perform a scene in front of the audience and a panel of judges. And to the music that also has washed ashore. (Last year it was Abba. This year...?)

If you know anyone who was there last year, this is a LOT of fun. So come out to Edges and join the party! We're serving a lunch from 2-4 while the tops make toys. (You can watch them work, but you can't help or comment!) and then from 4-6, watch the contest.

This event is being held at Edges (www.edges.biz) for the benefit of Food For Thought, an Aids Food Bank that Domina volunteers at.

$20 at the door (or $15 without lunch).

There is an open play party that evening open to Edges Members. Check the website for details.

RSVP for the lunch to irondom@frugaldomme.com
Watch These Tops Make Turkeys Out of Themselves... (events » community) Saturday, November 24, 2007 - 2:00 PM 196 RSVPs at the Iron Dom Contest at Edges on 11/24/07.

What happens when five tops get an assortment of strange items to make into toys? And then, AFTER they make their toys, they draw for bottoms who may not be the appropriate gender or orientation? It's an entertaining interlude for sure. Get away from those boring relatives and the football games, and come watch the entertainment.

The contestants will be making toys from 2-4 (and we'll also be serving lunch) and the contest starts at 4 PM. You know you'll be tired of eating turkey, so come out, eat some sloppy joes, and watch the contest!!

Domina put together the materials bags, so you know that SHE can figure out something to do with everything. Lets see if these tops can do it!!! Anyone who's seen the contest on other years, knows just how funny it can be.

This year's judges are The Baron (Odyssey's New President!)
Lynn, aka Soccermom, who certainly knows her toys
and Loren, from the SCCLA, who is an outstanding top in her own right.

The proceeds benefit Food for Thought, the Sonoma County Aids Food Bank where Domina volunteers.
The Iron Dom Contest this Saturday at Edges (events » community) Saturday, November 24, 2007 - 2:00 PM Watch five tops make turkeys out of themselves at the Iron Dom Contest at Edges on 11/24/07.

What happens when five tops get an assortment of strange items to make into toys? And then, AFTER they make their toys, they draw for bottoms who may not be the appropriate gender or orientation? It's an entertaining interlude for sure. Get away from those boring relatives and the football games, and come watch the entertainment.

The contestants will be making toys from 2-4 (and we'll also be serving lunch) and the contest starts at 4 PM. You know you'll be tired of eating turkey, so come out, eat some sloppy joes, and watch the contest!!

Domina put together the materials bags, so you know that SHE can figure out something to do with everything. Lets see if these tops can do it!!! Anyone who's seen the contest on other years, knows just how funny it can be.

This year's judges are The Baron (Odyssey's New President!)
Lynn, aka Soccermom, who certainly knows her toys
and Loren, from the SCCLA, who is an outstanding top in her own right.

RSVP for lunch (so we'll have enough food) to irondom@frugaldomme.com

There will be an open play party following the contest. www.edges.biz

The proceeds benefit Food for Thought, the Sonoma County Aids Food Bank where Domina volunteers.
Last Call for the Iron Dom Contest at Edges (events » community) Saturday, November 24, 2007 - 2:00 PM 197 RSVPs You don't need a membership to attend.

Come out this Saturday and watch five tops invent toys out of trash, do a scene with people they don't even know (and who may be of the incorrect orientation, and compete for prizes.

This is always a fun contest, and it's going to be great.

Come out early at 2:00 and watch the tops make their toys.

Have a late lunch of sloppy joes and picnic fare.

Or come by at 4:00 and just watch the contest.

This is always fun and funny. Come see it for yourself.

2-4 lunch and toys
4-6 Contest

Edges in Santa Clara (www.edges.biz)
Admission $20 for contest and lunch, or $15 for just the contest.
Proceeds go to Food for Thought, an Aids Food Bank.

Open Play party at Edges from 8pm until 1am.
Sadie Hawkins Day Party at the Citadel, February 29th. (events » community) Friday, February 29, 2008 - 8:00 PM 50 RSVPs Friday, February 29th is Sadie Hawkins Day. It only happens once every four years, when things are turned around. Bottoms get to tell the tops how to "do" them. Bottoms get to lie about and eat bon bons while tops get them coffee. Everybody gets chocolate, and even better, bottoms can bid on their favorite tops to DO them.

Everyone is welcome. Single tops and bottoms, couples, triads, every
orientation and permutation of our kink. You never know. The top you
buy that day, may turn out to be the top of your dreams...or (we hope
not) a nightmare best forgotten.

Still and all, how often do you get this chance????? I'll tell you,
only once every four years. So you'd better take advantage of it while
it's there.

Domina
Sadie Hawkins Day Party and Top Auction (7:30) (events » community) Friday, February 29, 2008 - 7:00 PM 50 RSVPs The Sadie Hawkins Day Party

Start Time: 7:00 PM

SF Citadel and Domina Present
The Saddie Hawkins Day Party

Friday February 29th
Doors open 7:00
Party till 1:00
Admission: Women $20.00 & Men $30
It's Sadie Hawkins Day

That one day, every four years when things are the
opposite of what they
usually are.

And this party is exactly that! All of you bottoms who
have wanted to
be "done" or been accused of topping from the
bottom...now is your
chance to do exactly that!!! It's your turn to tell
the top what you
want and how you want it!!

Tops, it's YOUR chance to relax and let the bottoms
tell you what they
want. You don't have to plan out any involved scenes
for the bottom's
pleasure. Now, let THEM do the planning. Just relax
and have fun.

And of course, since the bottoms are now in charge,
we're going to have
a TOP auction. We'll be starting this at 7:30. We're going to sell some of the
meanest, most skilled,
and most evil tops who will negotiate the scene for
the bottom's
pleasure. (Money from the auction goes to Food For
Thought, the Sonoma
County Aids Food Bank.)

And Tops, we know, that just once in this four year
period, you'll be
happy to fetch coffee and snacks for your bottoms. So
bottoms, you are
relieved of fetching duties for this one night.

So hurry and sign up for this party. Take advantage of
it since the
chance won't come again for FOUR YEARS.

If you would like to Volunteer for the party please
email the following address. In subject line place .
Saddie Hawkins Vol.

msdomina@frugaldomm e.com
Membership required and always available at the door
for just $10
Iron Dom Contest, August 2, 2008 at the Citadel (events » community) Saturday, August 2, 2008 - 2:30 PM The Iron Dom Contest
Saturday, August 2, 2008 at the Citadel!

Do They Have What It Takes????

Suppose you were a top, stranded on a desert island with only the flotsam and jetsam that washed ashore with you. After you take care of your basic necessities, you fill your time making toys...and we know what kind of toys!!

Eventually, someone else washes ashore and lo and behold, they are a BOTTOM!!! After great rejoicing and throwing a party in your new companion's honor, of course, you play. But wait!!! What if that person who washed ashore was of the incorrect gender or orientation? Do you have what it takes to make it work anyway?

This is what we will find out in this contest to determine 2008's Iron Dom.
This is great fun for everyone, both participants and spectators. Come by and watch the contestants make their toys out of various things Domina chose. Visit with your friends. Stay for lunch and have one of Domina's Justly Famous Sloppy Joes (Endorsed by the President of Odyssey Himself.) We are honored to tell you that Citadel is allowing ALL PROCEEDS of this event to go to FOOD FOR THOUGHT, the Sonoma County Aids Food Bank where Domina Volunteers. And if you're smart, you'll stay for the usual Saturday Night Party at the Citadel.
Contest and Lunch $25
Contest only $20

Door open at 2:30.

Contestants will make their toys from 2:30 until 4:30. The Contest will start at 5:00.

Come out and support your favorite contestant.
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April 29, 2008
I met Domina Lilith at Kinkfest 10. She was fending as the Frugal Domme and sold me my very first cane. I likely wouldn't have considered it otherwise, but someone I recognized from the Seattle kink community came up to us with a small armload of canes and raved about how his favorite cane maker was vending at the convention. My boy, an experienced leather fag, tested out one of the canes and started drooling. If I remember correctly, he was impressed at the cane whipped back and forth in a straight line rather than attempted to make an oval in the air. He also said something about not being able to easily find the midpoint in the cane where it'd bend. At that point, I gave up, strolled over and started looking. She greeted me and I admitted to being a complete novice at caning. She not only approved my choice of "Big Emma," she invited me to test it out on her attending bottom and didn't frown upon me excusing myself to request his consent before letting rip. She coached me a little on my technique, allowed me to browse a bit more before purchasing, described some items to me, noted my interests and sent me on my way.

The cane went over really well at that night's play party. hee hee.

The next morning, Domina Lilith was charming enough to let me know that a misnomer I'd granted one of her products caught her attention so much that she was willing to trade me use of it for a specific item that suited my interests. It did indeed. I plan to bring it to the next WWC meeting: it could catch on up here. Similarly, the Domina charmed my boy quite a bit, and we have at least one friend / acquaintence in common. Both a lovely coincidence and equally lovely lady.
March 5, 2005
I remember meeting Domina at a rope event in Modesto, back around 96 - 97. At first I was not sure what to make of her, but then after time I got to know her and found her to be one of the most delightful people I knew. I enjoyed watching her all those times at The Overlook followed by all the laughing at good tales. Then to have her join me on my radio show, with Mistress Steele, to do an awesome interview.

Domina is one of the best people I know in the Lifestyle.
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December 9, 2004
I consider her to be one of my mentors-by-default. I admire her integrity, loyalty, warm heart and thoughtful nature. Then again, you HAVE to admire someone who can create a toy, &^%$ you up with it, and smile graciously all the way. I owe to her a lovely cutting that, to this day, draws admiring responses. She is the Martha Stewart of kinkery. Woot!
November 7, 2003
Lilith is a good slapper.
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