Okay, a little more information, back ground and an update.

Fifteen of the last eighteen days I have either spent the evening and the night or the entire weekend with Scott. Debbie has all but given Scott to me and relinquished her responsibilities as a wife. The three of us are friends, but Scott and I have been lovers since the ninth of this month.

I have known Scott and Debbie for about eight years. Their daughter Kim and I have actually known each other since we were ten years old. In my pre and early teens, and since then I have dated her brother, Scott and Debbie;s son, Joe off and on .

Scott has always flirted with me, and I with him. I had never thought he and I would ever be in a relationship, but as of the ninth of this month we have been seeing each other, seriously. And it all started with a simple kiss, one that blew my mind.

On the ninth of this month I was helping Scott and Debbie rearrange some stuff in their house. Scott and I had never hugged before, but we did that day. I came over on the tenth and we did some more work on their deck. The afternoon of the tenth Scott gave me a hug and kissed me, then asked me to spend the night. And I did.

Since that night I have stayed at his house fifteen out of the last eighteen days. Debbie has slept in the guestroom when I stayed over, but changed the sheets for us in her and Scott;s room. I have told her I appreciate that she has pretty much given Scott to me. She told me she only wants him to be happy.

Scott and Debbie are complete opposites. He is very good natured and is a very funny man. Debbie is very staunch. Debbie isn’t a touchy feely type of person like Scott is. Scott and Joe are very much alike. I have, like I said, dated Joe off and on for years. I have enjoyed my time with Joe, but being with Scott is different.

Joe and I have been friends for years. When we have dated we have had sex. With Scott the sex has been different. Me and Scott have made love, but never had sex. And I know the difference now more than ever. I love Scott. I am actually in love with him. The three days that Scott wanted or felt he should spend time with Debbie I spent the nights with Joe.

Kim, Scott and Debbie;s daughter, and I have been friends since we were ten years old and she has always known that me and her dad have always flirted. And she has never minded. I asked her what she thought of me and her dad dating. Kim said she knew it would happen eventually. When she told me she knew I asked her how she knew. She said she could tell her dad really, really liked me.

Kim told me that seeing her dad with me was like seeing two teenagers together. She had never seen her dad act the way that he does around me. She also added that Scott had often mentioned he wished that he was dating me when Joe and I were dating a few years back. And when I stayed at Joes recently I called Scott and asked if he minded. Luckily, he said he didn’t mind. Although I know he wished it were he with me instead of Joe.

Debbie has been like normal around me. She has said that Scott talks about me all the time when she calls him at work. She also told me that she thinks this is looking like it is going to be a permanent thing. I told her I would like it to be, but I also understood that Scott was Her husband. Debbie told me that she felt we were both his wife.

I asked Debbie if there was anything she wished we wouldn’t do or say or what ever. She admitted seeing us deep kiss right in front of her did kind of ping her stomach. I promised I would try to keep that type of activity out of her sight. She told me Scott wouldn’t. She told me she knew Scott better than me. And I agreed. Debbie said Scott is a touchy feely person and has no sense of modesty. I wasn;t sure how to take that.

I have been seeing another guy and his dad for about a year now, off and on. Actually I see the dad more often, but both on ocassion. Scott knows I am polyamorous and he and Joe both know about the other guys I see. Yet I have to admit, since me and Scott have gotten serious I have been wanting more and more to only be with Scott.

Although I have had monogamous feelings, I know that Scott is married and Debbie is his wife. I also know that since Joe and I have had a past that I will probably continue to see him, too. The other father and son are both married. The father;s wife knows about me. The son’s wife doesn’t. And yes there are other married men I see from time to time, but Scott is special to me. I have feelings for him that I have never felt for anyone else.

I may never be monogamous, but I have felt monogamous feelings toward Scott. I know it is wrong to do so, especially since he is married. But, Debbie changes the bed sheets for me and Scott, and she lets me stay the night and sleep in her bed and make love to her husband. When me and Scott are together Debbie is like a friend to us both, and people have asked me and Scott if we were married. There have been a few times that Scott said yes.

Scott has admitted that he loves me differently than he loves Debbie. And he has had sex with her many more times than made love to her, and that he can’t imagine us having sex. He sees us together as making love. And I like that.

What is weird is that Debbie has told me that Scott has never made her orgasm. Why she told me this I am not sure. I did not tell her that I have orgasmed every time with Scott. And Debbie told me that Scott lasts far too long for her. I could not agree with her on that. The sex with Scott is pretty much the best I have ever had, and I think it is because I love him. The only time I have ever felt the way Scott makes me feel after or during sex is when I have been with several guys at once or several one after the other.

I have to admit that I have felt high for the last three weeks or so. It is such a good feeling. Kim told me the other day, or asked me, “love is intoxicating, isn’t it?” I have to admit that it is.

I like being considered Scott;s other wife. I also like that his wife gives up her bed for and to me. I also like that when I can’t be with Scott that Joe is so much like him. I also like that the other father and son that I see remind me of Scott. And I am glad that Kim is okay with me seeing her dad as well as her brother. What I like too, is that Debbie tells me I am part of the family now. Debbie told me there is only one rule, that I treat her husband as my own. And that is what I intend to do.

Scott had to go out of town for a couple days. Joe is out of town, and the other father and son I see are not available. I have other men I could have gone to, but I have not needed or wanted anyone else since the last time Scott and I were together. So, here I am getting all the benefits of being married without having to be. I do have to share Scott with Debbie at times, But that comes with the territory. I am just happy and feel so lucky that Scott wants me in his life and in his bed. And I am really lucky that his wife wants me to be with him. That his daughter and son are friends is important to me, too. I like my new family and my new love. I just felt I should update everyone.

Till next time